Language of Love is a weekly podcast where Dr. Berman shares her compassionate, humorous, and no-nonsense advice: answering listener questions and interviewing thought leaders and experts on relevant topics. Dr. Berman is ready to help you create the fulfilling and passionate love life you deserve, regardless of your relationship status, gender, or sexual orientation. Are you ready to get started?
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Welcome to Language of Love with Pastor Selasi, hosted by Pastor Selasi Agbobli. This podcast is dedicated to exploring the transformative power of God's love and how it can shape every aspect of your life. Join me as we delve into the Bible, share personal insights, and discuss practical ways to embrace and express the language of love in your daily walk with God. Each episode is crafted to inspire, uplift, and help you understand the depth of God’s love for you and how you can share it wit ...
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Renegade Grief: How to Grieve Out Loud in a World That Wants You Silent with Carla Fernandez
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51:40What does it mean to grieve in a world that tells you to move on? How do you find light in the darkest corners of loss, and can grief—often seen as a burden—become a source of connection, creativity, and even transformation? After losing her father at just 21 years old, author Carla Fernandez became a "renegade griever," defying societal norms and …
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The Real Reason You’re Stuck in the Same Fight (Again and Again)
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58:32Do you ever feel like your relationship is stuck in a loop? The same fights, the same frustrations, the same silent distance—even though you both want things to be better. Here’s the truth: Your partner’s baggage fits yours perfectly. The work isn’t to change them—it’s to unpack your own while holding space for theirs. In this raw and revealing Lan…
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Tiny Relationship Rituals That Bring Back the Spark
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7:04Have you ever felt like the spark between you and your partner has… well, fizzled out? Like, maybe you’re sitting on opposite ends of the couch scrolling through your phones instead of actually talking ? Or worse, you’ve started avoiding conversations because they feel too heavy or awkward? Trust me, you’re not alone. What if I told you that fixing…
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When Grief Becomes Your Greatest Teacher with Devi Brown
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58:28What happens when your world falls apart—and you’re left standing in the wreckage, asking, “Who am I now?” In this moving Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with the wise and radiant Devi Brown to talk about grief, trauma, surrender, and the surprising strength we find in our most broken moments. Devi shares how a series of devastating event…
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Can You Ever Truly Rebuild Trust After Infidelity?
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11:06How do you move forward when trust shatters in an instant? When the person who vowed to stand by you crosses a line that feels impossible to uncross? Here we are with another Language of Love session as I connect with Chelsea, a listener navigating the aftermath of her husband's infidelity. Chelsea's husband confessed to drunkenly making out with a…
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Lost in Translation: Are You Speaking Your Partner's Love Language Wrong?
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7:42Are you loving your partner the way they need to be loved? In this Language of Love Bite, we tackle the subtle mistakes that might be undermining your efforts to love your partner well. Whether it's distracted quality time or misunderstood acts of service, these miscommunications can leave both partners feeling frustrated and disconnected. But here…
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Connecting with Loved Ones Beyond the Veil with Maureen Hancock
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1:07:38Your loved ones, even after passing, are still with you, guiding you, and sending signs of their presence. In this Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Maureen Hancock, a renowned medium, holistic healer, and comedian. For decades, Maureen has been helping people heal from grief by bridging the gap between this world and the next. After s…
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Can Love Survive the Shadows of the Past?
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49:51Can love truly heal the wounds of the past? It’s a question many of us ask ourselves when past traumas creep into our relationships, casting long shadows over the love we’re trying to build. For Brian and Stacey, one of the amazing couples who come on the show to get support, this question isn’t just philosophical—it’s a daily reality. How do you r…
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The 5 Mistakes That Could Be Sabotaging Your Intimacy
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7:52Are you unknowingly sabotaging your relationship? Are you caught in a cycle of recurring arguments, wondering why the spark that once brought you together feels like it’s slipping away? The truth is we often blame our partner for the growing distance between us, convinced they’re the one creating tension—when in reality, it might be the subtle, unn…
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How to Menopause with Tamsen Fadal
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42:31Did you know menopause comes with 34 symptoms—yet most women are never told what to expect? Instead, they’re left guessing, struggling, and wondering if it’s all just in their heads. In this episode of The Language of Love Conversations, I sit down with Tamsen Fadal, Emmy Award-winning journalist and menopause advocate, to get real about what’s hap…
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Work Spouse: Office Joke or Relationship Threat?
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8:57The "work spouse" dilemma – why is this modern trend causing so much tension in relationships? You’ve likely heard the term before… It's that coworker who knows your partner’s schedule better than you do, the one who grabs a meal with your partner before a big meeting, or the person your partner vents to when work gets overwhelming. In this episode…
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The Secret Ingredient to Better Sex? It’s Not What You Think…
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6:27How many times have we overlooked the little moments that make our relationship special? The gentle touches, the inside jokes, the quiet ways our partner shows they care. It’s so easy to focus on what’s missing that we forget to appreciate what’s already there. But here’s the secret: gratitude isn’t just a feel-good idea—it’s a powerful force that …
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A Love Story in 250 Questions with Lindsay Jill Roth
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51:39Is your hesitation—your fear of being fully seen—actually keeping you from the deep, lasting connection you crave? In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Lindsay Jill Roth, award-winning producer and author of Romances and Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours) in 250 Questions. Lindsay isn’t afraid to tackle the …
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When Love Feels Like a Tug-of-War: Breaking the Cycle of Conflict
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46:38Are you stuck in the same argument over and over again? It starts with something small—an offhand comment, a last-minute plan, or a simple misunderstanding. Before you know it, you’re in yet another argument, saying things you don’t mean, feeling unheard, and wondering, how did we get here again? In this episode of The Language of Love Session, we …
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Did you know that your sexual energy isn’t just about what happens between the sheets? It’s the fuel that powers your confidence, your creativity, and that magnetic glow that attracts others and makes life feel exciting. But here’s the kicker—it’s easy to lose sexual energy, especially when emotions like guilt, shame, or stress build up, they act l…
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Dive into Your Akashic Records with Daniela Gil
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55:22There are whispers of a place—an unseen archive where every thought, every decision, every soul’s journey is etched into existence. Some call it the Akashic Records, an infinite library beyond time and space, containing the secrets of the past, present, and even the future. In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I’m joined by Daniela…
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The Silent Stigma: Herpes and the Fear of Disclosure
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12:24For far too long, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) have carried a heavy weight of stigma—whispers behind closed doors, silent fears, and the crushing anxiety of disclosure and the rejection that might follow. Many people would rather avoid dating altogether than face the possibility of judgment. But should a diagnosis really hold that much powe…
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Why Their Phone Gets More Attention Than You (and How to Change That)
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7:09Are you beginning to feel like your partner’s phone is becoming the third wheel in your relationship? Are you tired of being "phubbed"—that unsettling mix of phone and snubbed? You’re not alone. In this Language of Love Bite, we explore how to reclaim connection in your relationship without starting World War III. In this episode, I delve into the …
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The Wisdom of Jacob’s Ladder with Jacob Cooper
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59:51What if our worst moments are actually an opportunity to shift into a deeper connection with ourselves and everyone and everything around us? In this episode of Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Jacob Cooper—author, therapist, and someone who’s experienced a life-changing near-death experience (NDE)—to explore how we can maintain this …
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Why Do We Keep Having the Same Fight?
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52:20Did you know that most arguments in relationships aren’t really about what they seem? That fight about the trash? The dishes? Being late? It’s rarely about the actual issue—it’s about something deeper. Feeling unheard. Feeling unappreciated. Feeling disconnected. In this Language of Love Session, we continue to follow Brian and Stacey as they navig…
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Can Your Relationship Survive Betrayal? Here’s How to Make Sure It Does
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7:41The headlines are buzzing, and let’s face it, Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater’s story feels like a drama we didn’t ask for. Relationships in the spotlight are hard enough, but throw an affair into the mix, and it’s like watching a reality show unfold in real time. And then there’s Ethan’s wife—cue her powerful essay in The Cut, where, as a therapist…
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From Grief to Healing: Staying Connected with Those We’ve Lost with Meghan Riordan Jarvis
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1:02:48What if grief isn’t just about loss, but about staying connected to those who’ve passed on? Have you ever wondered if your loved ones are still with you after they’ve gone? What if there’s a way to feel their presence and find healing through that connection? Grief can be a painful, overwhelming journey, but it’s also one that can offer profound mo…
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The blessedness of Fasting & Prayers
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47:03Are you seeking to increase your spiritual fervor, obtain certain major breakthroughs and advancement? In this episode the key of fasting and prayer are expounded with scriptures as tools to experiencing your desires as God wills for you. Fasting and prayer are Christian disciplines and exercises every believer is expected to partake often. It’s a …
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Caught in the Act: What to Do When Your Kids Walk In on You
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15:03What do you do when your child accidentally walks in on you and your spouse during an intimate moment? It’s one of those unexpected situations that can leave you feeling flustered and unsure of how to respond. In this Language of Love session, a listener, Kim, reaches out to me after experiencing one of those “mortifying parenting moments” when her…
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How to Last Longer in Bed: The Guys Edition
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13:28Let’s be honest—everyone wants to last longer in bed, right? So, what’s the secret to going the distance and keeping your partner satisfied? Can you really improve your stamina, or is it all just wishful thinking? The truth is, there are some simple tips and tricks you can apply to not just last longer, but also make sure your partner is definitely…
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Seeing the Signs From Our Loved Ones with Elizabeth Boisson
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47:24Losing a child is an unimaginable pain—one that breaks you open in ways you never thought possible. When I lost my son Sammy, my world shifted in an instant. Sammy was my light, my joy, and his absence left a void that words can’t capture. Yet, in the depths of that sorrow, I began to uncover something profound: a path not just to survive the loss …
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Conscious Loving: How to Break the Cycle of Resentment and Build Connection
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40:45In this episode of The Language of Love Session, I continue to guide Bryan and Stacey through the ups and downs of their relationship, tackling key issues like communication, trust, and appreciation. If you haven’t tuned into their journey yet, be sure to catch up on our previous sessions—it’s a story you won’t want to miss. This week, things got a…
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The Kissing Game: How to Fine-Tune Your Techniques Together
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8:33When was the last time you had a kiss that truly took your breath away? Not just a peck on the cheek or a quick smooch in passing, but a kiss so meaningful it sparked something deep inside? If it’s been a while, you’re not alone. For many couples, kissing tends to fade into the background of a long-term relationship. But here’s the good news—it doe…
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Beyond Anxiety with Martha Beck
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59:53In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Martha Beck—bestselling author, life coach, and one of the smartest women Oprah Winfrey knows (I agree!). Martha holds three Harvard degrees and her latest book, Beyond Anxiety: Curiosity, Creativity, and Finding Your Life’s Purpose, is a powerful guide to moving past anxiety. In…
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What’s the Secret to Overcoming Trauma in Love?
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1:00:37What do you do when your relationship feels stuck in a cycle of disconnection? Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you and your partner just can’t sync up? Perhaps past trauma is creating invisible walls, or the pressures of daily life are slowly pulling you apart. How can you break through and rebuild trust and intimacy when life kee…
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Why Every Couple Needs Sex Toys in Their Bedroom Arsenal
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10:10Did you know only 30% of women reach orgasm through intercourse alone? For women over 40, changes in nerve function, sensation and arousal sexual aids and devices are even more valuable for enhancing pleasure and connection. Have you ever felt unsure about how to introduce the idea of using a sex toy in your relationship? Or maybe you're curious ab…
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A Course in Miracles: Staying Connected to Loved Ones After Loss with Pam Grout
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56:19In this powerful episode, I sit down with best-selling author, Pam Grout, to explore the profound journey of healing, love, and loss—and to discuss how, even in the darkest times, we can discover light and meaning. Pam and I share a bond beyond our love for quantum physics and a belief in manifestation. We've both faced unimaginable losses: We both…
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When a Narcissist Wants Back In: What to Consider
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11:17They swept you off your feet, showered you with affection, and made you feel like the center of their world—until they didn’t. Now, just when you thought you were done, they’re back, promising that they’ve changed and insisting that this time will be different. But can someone who left you feeling confused and used really transform that quickly? Th…
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Is One Love Enough for a Lifetime?
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13:24Why, in a world full of endless choices, do so many of us search for that one person to share a life with? Is it loyalty, comfort, a desire for deep connection—or maybe the thrill of choosing one person out of billions, saying, “You’re my person,” and truly meaning it? But here’s the real question: can one person meet all your needs? Or maybe you'v…
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Before We Go: Redefining End-of-Life Connections with Dr. Shoshana Ungerleider
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48:50Talking about the end of life isn’t exactly everyone’s favorite topic, but it’s one of the most important conversations we can have. Not only does it give our loved ones clarity and peace, but it also creates a pathway to stay connected—even after they’ve crossed over. Caregivers know this better than anyone; they lean into these talks because they…
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Are You and Your Partner Out of Sync in the Bedroom?
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49:21So, what do you do when your sexual energy levels just don’t match up? One partner might be feeling a bit neglected or even a little angry, which can create some serious tension in the relationship. In this episode of The Language of Love Session, I’m bringing you an intimate counseling session with a brave duo, Brian and Stacey. They’re tackling s…
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Why Sex is the Best Medicine for Body, Mind & Soul
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6:24Did you grow up feeling like sex was a taboo topic to discuss—something mysterious, maybe even a little forbidden? Most of us did, which can make it easy to see sex as a "guilty pleasure" rather than what it really can be—a natural, healthy and beautiful part of life. But here’s where things get interesting: turns out, a satisfying sex life does a …
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The Reinvention Formula with Craig Siegel
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57:43Is your inner critic throwing a party, and you’re not invited? We’ve all been there! It’s easy to get caught in a loop of limiting beliefs that keep you from living your best life. But what if I told you that the key to breaking free is simply a mindset shift away? In this Language of Love Conversation, I have an amazing conversation with Craig Sie…
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Do You Just Need to “Relax” or is Something Else Making Sex Hurt?
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11:41That’s one of the questions we explore in this Language of Love Session, as I dive into a letter from a listener, Veera, who’s grappling with some common and tricky troubles with intimacy, body image, and self-worth. Veera’s been feeling discomfort and even bleeding during sex with her new partner. She’s wondering, “Is this just because I’m getting…
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Long-term relationships can feel a bit routine at one point, and a craving for an extra spark often arises in most couples. In this episode of Language of Love Bite, I’m thrilled to take you on a journey into the captivating realm of tantric sex. This practice is all about harmonizing body, mind, and spirit to forge a sacred bond with your partner …
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The Awakened Way with Medium Suzanne Giesemann
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1:04:40Losing someone we love is a heartbreak like no other. When I lost my son Sammy, it felt like a piece of me went missing, but that wasn’t the end of our connection. In fact, since he crossed over, I’ve felt his presence in the most unexpected ways. Turns out, love has a way of sticking around—even when we are no longer here in physical form. In this…
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In Law Dramas? Then Listen to This One!
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8:56Even when we love our in laws, we all also love our space, right? But what do you do when your mother-in-law starts showing up unannounced like she’s got her own set of keys? In this Language of Love session, I dive into a challenge so many couples face: how to set healthy boundaries with in-laws. Shannon, one of my listeners, writes in to share he…
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Why Is Sex Painful? Let’s Talk About It
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15:23Have you ever wondered why something meant to be pleasurable can sometimes feel uncomfortable or even painful? In this Language of Love Bite, I tackle an important issue we don’t discuss nearly enough—pain during sex. This common experience affects up to 75% of women at some point in their lives, but the good news is that you don’t have to just liv…
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Creating and Cultivating True Soul Friendships with Sah D’Simone
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1:11:23Have you ever met someone and felt an instant connection, like you’ve known them forever? Isn’t it amazing how some people seem to resonate with your very soul? That magical feeling isn’t just coincidence; it’s what we call a “soul friend,” and trust me, it’s more enchanting than you might think! In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation…
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After Baby: How to Rekindle the Spark
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9:54Postpartum sexuality—how often do we actually talk about it? Probably not enough. You’re healing, emotions are high, and intimacy might feel like a distant thought. Meanwhile, your partner might be quietly wondering how to approach it too. So, how do you bring up such a sensitive topic without making it feel like walking on eggshells? And how do yo…
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Unpacking the Hidden Impact of Trauma
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15:45We’ve all been there—life throws us a curveball, and we’re left dealing with trauma. And as much as we’d love just to hit the "ignore" button, trauma has this sneaky way of creeping into our relationships. In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into the deep end of trauma. We're talking all kinds here—sexual, physical, emotional, rejection, humiliat…
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Confessions of a Midlife Muse with Dr. Amanda Hanson
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51:00A lot of people, especially women, still freak out about a few gray hairs or a new wrinkle. So, why not flip the script? In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with the "Midlife Muse," clinical psychologist, speaker, and author Dr. Amanda Hanson, to dive into the tricky subject of aging—especially for women. Society pushes…
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Confessions of the Heart: How to Share Your Past Without Fear
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12:16Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you’re unsure how to come clean with your partner about something from your past? It’s uncomfortable, right? In this episode of The Language of Love Sessions, one of my listeners, Sasha, finds herself in a tough spot—she’s not sure how to come clean to her partner after being less than honest about …
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What it Takes to Build and Maintain Trust in Relationships
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8:16Trust issues are the sneaky villains behind many relationship troubles. Those past betrayals and broken promises make it hard to open up again. But here’s the bright side: rebuilding trust isn’t just about fixing what’s broken; it’s about turning old wounds into a fresh start. In this Language of Love Bite, I give my advice on how to build trust in…
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Finding Meaning After Loss with David Kessler
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59:57Are you grappling with the profound weight of grief and wondering if you'll ever find your way through? Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the idea that healing from loss should follow a straightforward path, only to be met with the unpredictable twists and turns of your emotions? In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I’m chatting wi…
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