Being a youth pastor’s wife is tough, isn’t it? You’re trying to balance ministry and family. You’re feeling the pressure to be perfect. You’re dealing with teenagers all the time. You’re trying to lead a small group. You’re struggling to find time to rest. You’re feeling overwhelmed, overlooked, and over-committed. Like I said, it’s a tough job. And on top of that, it can also feel lonely because being a youth pastor’s wife has a unique set of challenges compared to what other ministry wive ...
…
continue reading
Each episode you’ll listen in conversation with one of my friends or a fellow ministry wife and hopefully leave feeling encouraged and a little less alone in this crazy life!
…
continue reading
This week’s episode is a little different—just a quick, heartfelt message from me to you. If you’re feeling the weight of the season or needing a breath of fresh air, this short update is for you. Take a moment to tune in, pause, and reset with me. Don’t forget to hit subscribe and leave a rating and review if you found this episode helpful! Join t…
…
continue reading
1
The 5-Minute Gratitude Practice That Changes Your Whole Day
20:46
20:46
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
20:46Ever feel like ministry life moves so fast that you barely have time to breathe, let alone slow down and notice what God is doing? In today’s episode, we’re talking about a simple 5-minute gratitude practice that can completely shift the tone of your day. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, distracted, or just a little worn thin, this short routine…
…
continue reading
1
How to Find Your People: 3 Simple Ways to Start Building Community This Week
26:37
26:37
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
26:37Have you ever walked into church, seen a ton of familiar faces, and still felt… alone? If so, you’re not the only one. Ministry life can be fulfilling in a lot of ways, but it can also make finding real friends feel a little tricky. In today’s episode, we’re talking honestly about what it looks like to actually find your people as a youth pastor’s …
…
continue reading
1
A Word for the Weary Ministry Wife (Plus a Big Announcement!)
32:03
32:03
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
32:03I know ministry life can be hard, and sometimes it feels like you’re giving everything you have and still wondering if it’s enough. Maybe you’re tired, maybe you feel unseen, or maybe you’re just wondering how to keep going without losing yourself along the way. In this episode, I want to remind you that God sees you. He sees the little ways you se…
…
continue reading
1
Feeling Overwhelmed? Here's My 3-Step Reset for Ministry Life
25:41
25:41
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
25:41Ever have one of those weeks where ministry just feels like a lot? The events, the people, the emotions...it all starts piling up, and before you know it, you’re running on empty. I’m actually walking through a season like that right now. In this episode, I’m sharing something simple that’s been helping me catch my breath and find calm when I start…
…
continue reading
1
Daily and Weekly Rhythms to Help You Grow Spiritually
29:49
29:49
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
29:49I’ll be honest...some weeks I look back and realize I’ve been doing a lot for God, but haven’t really spent much time with Him. Have you ever felt that way? In this episode, I’m sharing some simple daily and weekly rhythms that have helped me stay grounded and grow spiritually, even in the middle of busy ministry life. If you’ve been craving a deep…
…
continue reading
1
11 Lessons I've Learned from 11 Years in Ministry
43:25
43:25
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
43:25If you’ve been in ministry for more than five minutes, you know it’ll stretch you, humble you, and teach you things you never expected to learn. In this episode, I’m sharing 11 lessons I’ve learned over the last 11 years of serving in ministry — through different seasons, different roles, and a whole lot of trial and error. Some lessons came throug…
…
continue reading
1
Why It's Healthy to Have Friends Who Don't Go to Your Church
32:35
32:35
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
32:35If you’ve ever felt like you can’t fully relax or be yourself around people at church, this episode is for you. Today, we’re talking about why it’s so healthy to have friendships outside your church or youth group...people who see you as you, not “the pastor’s wife.” Having those outside friendships doesn’t mean you love your church family any less…
…
continue reading
1
Hospitality on the Fly: How to Get Your Home Guest-Ready in 20 Minutes
20:08
20:08
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
20:08De către Kristen Cave
…
continue reading
1
The 3x3 Rule: How to Balance Ministry, Marriage, and Your Personal Life in Just 10 Minutes a Day
18:50
18:50
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
18:50Ever feel like you’re constantly trying to juggle ministry, marriage, and your own sanity, but something always ends up crashing to the ground? Same. It can feel impossible to give your best in all three areas without running yourself ragged. That’s why I want to share a simple little framework I use called the 3x3 Rule. It’s not fancy, it’s not co…
…
continue reading
1
What To Do When Everything's Changing and Life Feels Uncertain (A Personal, Behind-the-Scenes Episode)
36:00
36:00
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
36:00I’ll be honest with you—this season has knocked the wind out of me a bit. There have been moments lately where I’ve felt unsure, unsteady, and even a little scared about what’s next. Maybe you’ve been there too…standing in the middle of change you didn’t ask for, wondering what God’s doing in the middle of it all. In this episode, I’m pulling back …
…
continue reading
1
8 Questions Ministry Couples Need to Be Asking Each Other Regularly
38:19
38:19
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
38:19Ever feel like ministry life turns you and your spouse into glorified coworkers instead of partners who actually like each other? (Been there. More than once.) In this episode of The Youth Pastor’s Wife Podcast, I’m sharing 8 simple but powerful questions you can use to keep your marriage, ministry, and spiritual life connected. By the end of this …
…
continue reading
1
10 Small Group Hacks Every Leader Needs To Know
28:08
28:08
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
28:08Leading a small group doesn’t have to feel like herding cats…though sometimes it definitely does. 🙃 The good news is, with a few practical hacks, you can take the stress out of small group time and actually enjoy it. In this episode, I’m sharing 10 small group hacks every leader needs to know, things like embracing silence, the best way to learn na…
…
continue reading
1
3 Lies We Believe as Youth Pastors' Wives (and 3 Truths To Replace Them With)
34:49
34:49
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
34:49Have you ever felt like you’re not doing enough in ministry? Or maybe you’ve believed the pressure-filled thought that you should already have it all figured out? As youth pastors’ wives, it’s so easy for little lies to creep into our minds and start shaping the way we see ourselves, our marriage, and our ministry. In this episode, I’m sharing 3 li…
…
continue reading
1
3 Steps To Take When You're On The Verge Of Burnout
29:58
29:58
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
29:58Have you ever felt like you’re just done—like you love Jesus and you love serving, but you’re completely worn out and wondering if you can keep going? If so, you’re not alone. Ministry burnout is real, and it doesn’t make you weak—it makes you human. In this episode, I want to sit with you in that feeling and remind you that you don’t have to give …
…
continue reading
1
Organize Your Week In Less Than 30 Minutes
22:53
22:53
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
22:53Does your week ever feel like it’s running you instead of the other way around? Same. That’s why in this episode, I’m sharing how you can organize your entire week in less than 30 minutes. No fancy color-coded system, no overwhelming process—just a simple, practical way to plan that actually works for organizing everything from church events to wor…
…
continue reading
1
What Discipleship Really Looks Like In Real Life (Spoiler Alert: It's Not Always Coffee Shops and Bible Studies)
43:10
43:10
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
43:10When you picture “discipleship,” do you imagine a perfect coffee shop setting, a cute notebook, and an hour of deep theological conversation? Yeah… me too. Until I realized real-life discipleship doesn’t always look like that. Sometimes it’s a quick conversation in the Taco Bell drive-thru. Sometimes it’s folding chairs after youth group. And somet…
…
continue reading
1
Balancing Student Ministry and a Full-Time Job
24:49
24:49
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
24:49Balancing a full-time job and serving in youth ministry with your husband? Girl, it’s a lot. Like, “eat dinner in the car while mentally prepping for small group” kind of a lot. In this episode, we’re getting super real about what it looks like to show up for your students, support your husband, and still keep your sanity (and your job). I’m sharin…
…
continue reading
1
7 Simple Weekend Rhythms to Set Up a Better Week
30:33
30:33
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
30:33Somehow, the weekend disappears faster than your coffee on a Sunday morning — and suddenly it’s Monday, your to-do list is staring you down, and the laundry pile has taken on a life of its own. If you’ve ever felt like the week starts before you’re even ready, this episode is for you. I’m sharing 7 simple things I do over the weekend that help me f…
…
continue reading
1
How to Handle Ministry Burnout When You're an Introvert and Tired of People
25:51
25:51
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
25:51Ever had one of those days where you're like, "I love Jesus... but I cannot talk to one more person"? Same. In fact, that was me yesterday. So if you're like me and you're introverted, in ministry, and completely peopled out, this episode is for you. Today I’m talking about what to do when your social battery is dead, but ministry keeps moving. I’m…
…
continue reading
1
5 Mistakes I Made in My First Year as a Youth Pastor's Wife
39:57
39:57
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
39:57My first year of being a youth pastor's wife wasn’t exactly smooth sailing. I came in with a lot of expectations, some pressure I put on myself, and a few assumptions that didn’t hold up in real life. In this episode, I’m sharing five mistakes I made early on—some funny, some painful, all very real—because I know how lonely and confusing those firs…
…
continue reading
1
When One Person Talks Too Much: Managing Dominators In Your Small Group
40:26
40:26
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
40:26Ever led a small group where one person treats the discussion like their personal podcast? You ask a question, and suddenly you’re five tangents deep in their life story while the rest of the group mentally checks out. Yeah... we’re going there today. In this episode, we’re diving into how to lovingly, graciously (and strategically) manage dominato…
…
continue reading
1
7 Things That Keep My Home From Falling Apart During Busy Ministry Weeks
26:31
26:31
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
26:31Ever feel like your house is one rogue sock away from total chaos? Same. Ministry weeks can feel like a full-time job on top of your actual full-time job… and somehow the laundry still wants to be washed and the people still want to eat. In this quick, real-life episode, I’m sharing 7 simple habits that help me keep my home from totally unraveling …
…
continue reading
1
Wanna Make Friends And Build Community? Here's Where To Start!
38:44
38:44
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
38:44You want godly friends. You want to feel known, supported, and invited in. But if we’re being honest… making friends as an adult (especially in ministry) can feel awkward, frustrating, and just plain hard. If you’ve ever thought, “I wish someone would invite me to coffee…” or “I’m tired of feeling left out,” this episode is for you. We’re talking a…
…
continue reading
1
8 Quick Connection Habits For Ministry Couples
21:16
21:16
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
21:16Between youth group chaos, church events, and that one person who always needs “just five minutes” after service, being married in ministry can start to feel like a never-ending game of tag — and you're always “it.” If you've been craving more connection with your husband but aren’t sure where to start, this episode is for you. I’m sharing 8 simple…
…
continue reading
1
3 Boundaries I'm Learning To Set Without Feeling Guilty
21:44
21:44
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
21:44Let’s talk boundaries — the kind that keep you sane when your phone won’t stop buzzing, people keep asking for “just one more thing,” and social media makes you feel like you’re somehow not doing enough. In today’s episode, I’m sharing 3 boundaries I’m learning to set without feeling guilty (okay… trying not to feel guilty). We’re talking about not…
…
continue reading
1
When the Enemy Comes for You — Navigating Spiritual Warfare in Ministry
28:55
28:55
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
28:55Ever had one of those weeks where everything goes wrong right before a big youth event? Or maybe you’ve felt unusually disconnected from your husband, discouraged in your role, or just weighed down by something you can’t explain? Yeah… that might not be “just life.” In this episode, we’re diving into the very real (but often overlooked) reality of …
…
continue reading
1
When You Feel Lonely In Ministry - Encouragement For The Youth Pastor's Wife Who Feels Unseen And Alone
29:47
29:47
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
29:47Have you ever sat in a room full of people and still felt completely alone? Like you’re showing up week after week, supporting your husband, loving on students… but deep down, you feel invisible? Maybe you’ve cried in secret and thought, “I don’t even know who I can talk to about this.” If that’s you — I’ve been there too. And this episode is for y…
…
continue reading
1
How Do I Lead A Small Group For Students If I've Never Led One Before?
36:12
36:12
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
36:12If you want to lead a small group for students—and you even feel like God’s nudging you to do it—but you have no idea where to start (and honestly, you're a little freaked out), this is the episode for you! I’m breaking down the exact format I use for our student small groups (yep—copy and paste it if you want to). I’ll walk you through setting gro…
…
continue reading
1
Creating Routines When Your Husband Doesn't Have A "Normal" Job
36:58
36:58
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
36:58When your husband’s in ministry and his schedule is all over the place (what even is a weekend?), creating a routine can feel...laughable. Late nights, weekend events, last-minute texts that somehow turn into counseling sessions… yeah, it’s a whole thing. So how in the world are you supposed to build a routine when your life feels like a never-endi…
…
continue reading
1
Tired, Discouraged, And Wondering If You're Making An Impact?
21:19
21:19
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
21:19Have you ever walked away from a youth night thinking, “Did that even matter?” Maybe you’ve shown up, served, supported your husband, stayed up late, cleaned up the mess—and still felt like no one noticed. If you’ve ever wondered if any of it is actually making a difference, this episode is for you. I know what it’s like to feel tired, discouraged,…
…
continue reading
1
My Top 10 Youth Camp Tips For Youth Pastors' Wives
38:10
38:10
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
38:10Let’s be real—youth camp is one of the most powerful, exhausting, overwhelming, and amazing things we get to be part of as youth pastors' wives. But if you’re already feeling stressed just thinking about packing, schedules, and the nonstop chaos, you’re not alone. The good news? You don’t have to just survive camp—you can actually thrive in it. In …
…
continue reading
1
Is Ministry His Job Or Ours? Finding Your Place In Serving Together
36:52
36:52
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
36:52When I first stepped into the role of a youth pastor’s wife, I was eager to be involved—but I kept hearing older pastors' wives say, “I’m not in ministry—he is.” And honestly? That really messed with me. It made me question what I felt like God was calling me to do. In today’s episode, we’re talking about that tension—how to navigate the desire to …
…
continue reading
1
Help! What If I Don't Get Along With Another Youth Ministry Volunteer?
29:55
29:55
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
29:55Ministry is all about people… but what happens when one of those people just gets under your skin? Maybe you’ve tried to shake it off, stay polite, or even pray it away—but the tension is still there. If you’ve ever wondered, “What do I do when I don’t get along with someone on the team?”—this episode is for you. We’re having a heart-to-heart about…
…
continue reading
1
How To Know If You're Investing In The Right Student
25:27
25:27
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
25:27Ever poured your heart into a student—showed up to their games, grabbed coffee with them, prayed for them like crazy—only to feel like...nothing’s changing? 🙃 It’s honestly one of the most discouraging parts of student ministry. You want to be intentional. You want to make a difference. But how do you know if you’re investing in the right student? …
…
continue reading
1
The Mindset Shift You Need To Overcome Your Struggle With People-Pleasing
36:30
36:30
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
36:30Ever feel like your life revolves around keeping everyone else happy—even at the expense of your own peace? Trust me, I’ve been there. People-pleasing can feel good in the moment, but it’s exhausting, overwhelming, and honestly, it’s not what God calls us to do. In this episode, I’m sharing the exact mindset shift that's helping me break free from …
…
continue reading
1
How To Support Your Husband When He's Working For A Difficult Lead Pastor
23:22
23:22
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
23:22Have you ever felt stuck watching your husband navigate a tough ministry situation — especially when it involves a difficult lead pastor? It’s hard to know what to do or say when he’s discouraged or frustrated, and honestly, it can feel pretty overwhelming. In this episode, we’re having a heart-to-heart about how to support your husband when minist…
…
continue reading
1
This One Hack Will Instantly Improve Your Ministry And Your Marriage
29:40
29:40
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
29:40If you want to change the way you approach conversations with your students, your husband, your church members, or really anyone in your life, then you're going to LOVE this episode! Today, I’m sharing a game-changing concept my counselor taught me called 3-way listening. It’s all about listening to the person in front of you, tuning into the Holy …
…
continue reading
1
Taking The Pressure Off When It Comes To Your Quiet Time
23:43
23:43
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
23:43Do you ever feel like your quiet time has to be long, deep, and perfectly structured to “count”? In this episode, we’re letting go of that pressure and embracing the true purpose of spending time with God—connection, not perfection. I’ll share practical ways to simplify your quiet time, make it sustainable in any season, and remove the guilt that o…
…
continue reading
1
How To Rest When Ministry Never Stops - 7 Tips For Prioritizing Rest
25:55
25:55
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
25:55Ministry never slows down, which means if we’re going to rest, we have to be intentional about it. But how do you prioritize rest when there’s always another student to check in on, another event to plan, or another late-night text to respond to? In this episode, we’re diving into what it really looks like to rest when ministry feels like it never …
…
continue reading
1
The Simple Weekly Check-In That Will Strengthen Your Marriage
20:40
20:40
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
20:40Does it feel like you and your husband are just passing each other in the chaos of ministry and everyday life? Between church events, family responsibilities, and everything in between, it’s easy to feel disconnected. But what if a simple 20-minute check-in each week could bring you closer, help you communicate better, and strengthen your marriage?…
…
continue reading
I had a very different plan for the episode I was going to release today, but I'm switching it up because this is something we need to talk about. Life is just hard sometimes. Ministry can feel overwhelming, your marriage can feel stretched thin, and on top of it all, you still have regular life things to deal with—health struggles, financial stres…
…
continue reading
1
8 Must-Know Tips For Leading A Thriving Small Group
27:40
27:40
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
27:40Leading a small group is one of the most rewarding things you can do in ministry, but let’s be real—it can also be a little intimidating. Maybe you’re wondering how to get students to actually talk (instead of just staring at you in silence), or you’re trying to figure out how to balance fun with real discipleship. I get it—leading a small group ca…
…
continue reading
1
Supporting Your Husband During Job Interviews: Practical Tips For Youth Pastors' Wives
31:21
31:21
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
31:21When your husband is interviewing for a youth pastor position, it can feel like everything is up in the air. You want to be helpful, but you’re not always sure how. Should you help him prepare? How do you encourage him without adding pressure? And what do you do with all the emotions that come with waiting for an answer? I’ve been there. When my hu…
…
continue reading
1
Why Vulnerability Matters: 3 Keys To Deeper Relationships + Spiritual Growth
29:00
29:00
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
29:00Does it ever feel like being vulnerable is just too risky—like everyone’s expecting you to have it all together so you can’t let your guard down? Same, girl. Same. But here’s the thing: I've learned firsthand that vulnerability is the key to deeper relationships, a stronger ministry, and real spiritual growth. In this episode, we’re talking about w…
…
continue reading
1
6 Ways To Invest In Your Marriage Outside Of Church
27:35
27:35
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
27:35Let’s be real—ministry life is busy, and sometimes it feels like every conversation with your husband revolves around church stuff. But your marriage is about more than just serving together; it’s about actually enjoying life together. So how do you make sure your relationship stays strong beyond Sunday mornings and church events? In this episode, …
…
continue reading
1
What Is Jesus' Purpose + Calling For Me As A Youth Pastor's Wife?
28:39
28:39
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
28:39Have you ever wondered what your purpose really is as a youth pastor’s wife? Maybe you feel like you’re just there to support your husband, but deep down, you’re asking, "Does Jesus have something specific for me too?" In this episode, we’re diving into what it truly means to walk in the calling Jesus has for you as a youth pastor's wife. I’ll shar…
…
continue reading
1
3 Simple Systems To Help You Balance Family And Ministry
25:21
25:21
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
25:21Does it ever feel like ministry is taking over your life, and your family is getting the leftovers? You’re not alone! Balancing family and ministry can be really hard, but it doesn’t have to feel impossible. In this episode, I'm giving you three simple systems that can help you protect your time, prioritize your people, and still serve your church …
…
continue reading
1
A Step-by-Step Guide To Building Your Support System As A Youth Pastor's Wife
28:32
28:32
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
28:32Has being in ministry ever left you feeling lonely? Have you been hoping and praying for a solid support system but not known where to start or who to reach out to? If that's you, friend, this episode is for you! I'm going to give you a step-by-step guide to building a strong, encouraging, life-changing support system to walk alongside you in your …
…
continue reading
1
10 Tips For Building Relationships With Students In Your Youth Group
27:05
27:05
Redă mai târziu
Redă mai târziu
Liste
Like
Plăcut
27:05Let’s be real—connecting with teenagers can feel like trying to crack a secret code. But it doesn’t have to be that hard! In this episode of The Youth Pastor’s Wife Podcast, we’re keeping it super practical as I share 10 tips for building real, meaningful relationships with the students in your youth group. Whether you’ve been doing youth ministry …
…
continue reading