Life has a funny way of producing its share of challenges! The same is especially true in Relationships. Not only does Relationships present its own challenges, but when it’s coupled with what life seems to automatically bring, this could be hazardous to the health of the Relationship. There are so many Relationships that will fall by the wayside b…

At any moment an argument can burst on the scene in a Relationship. Words will be stated that could hurt and send the other Mate into a defensive mode where they start saying a few choice words to reciprocate the pain that is pulsating through them after the barrage of the heartbreaking words they received. The funny thing about everything I said i…

We always can expect our Relationships to go through our ups and downs. But it is our response to our Mate after we have a disagreement that forces us to have an argument. In this Episode, Tony highlights what is almost inevitable in Relationships. That is arguing with your Mate! When you have people who are with each other in the same space for an…

The reality of Relationships becomes even more real when you both begin to develop a strong Connection. It makes you and your Mate feel Better about your Relationship when this Connection keeps growing. Situations will arise that gives each of you a snapshot of how deep you two have become. In this Episode, Tony will give us some of the Signs of a …

Tony continues in this Episode what he started in the previous Episode. He is asking some questions about Relationships that people really want answers to. In this Episode he goes a few steps deeper by asking some more thought provoking questions that we all believe need answering. A few of these questions Tony answers from his very own perspective…

Have you ever had a question that you just can't seem to get out of your head? The longer you go without answering it the more it lingers in your mind. Well in this Episode, tony will take time to answer questions that he has received from people after starting The Relationship Therapy Podcast. He will not only present the questions, but he will al…

Tony has done it again. He has given us another Episode that will make us think Not only about ourselves, but also about our Relationships. In this Episode he is talking about "Real Honesty in Relationships!" Every Couple is looking for that in their Relationship. The question is, do you have it, are you trending that way, or do you have a really l…

It is true that we all Love a great Relationship! Also true is that we Love the feeling we get from one of those Healthy Relationships! The problem arises when we are not prepared for that type of Relationship. Often we enter Relationships not knowing what we want out of that Relationship. We see how others are doing while they are in theirs's, but…

Tony finally was able to pin down a strong group of Men who have a lot to say about their Marriages. They will be sharing where they see themselves inside their Relationship. They don't mind sharing their thoughts & feelings with their Mates. Hopefully, this is going to help Men understand that it is okay to be exposed emotionally with their signif…

This is a very dangerous problem that happens inside Relationships. The tricky thing is they may not see it taking place right before their eyes. If they don't catch it early enough, the Relationship will disintegrate without as much as a warning. All is not lost for any Couple that finds themselves going through Growing Apart. Tony gives us a reme…

Episode #12 of season 3 is the very first Episode that came about through popular demand. Because of the reaction from the previous Episode, Tony decided to follow that Episode with possible answers! In the Episode prior to this one, Tony talked about "The 4 Benefits of Apologizing to Your Mate". In this Episode, Tony follows up with "The Reasons P…

Have there ever been a time where somebody hurt your feelings? Do you remember when your Mate said or did something that caused some distance between the two of you? All of the distance was caused because feelings had been hurt. Did you receive or give an Apology? Or the hurt and pain linger on? This Episode talks about Apologies and the impact tha…

Another Episode that will leave us thinking hard about our Relationship. Are you and your Mate good TEAMMATES? That is a serious question that must be answered by each Couple who hears this particular Episode. Do you want to be a good TEAMMATE? Or are you too caught up on being an individual? Tony takes a long hard look at the way we act as a Coupl…

The Relationship Rhythm series continues with Tony presenting "The 4 Blockers of Rhythm in Relationships!" This Episode highlights some of the things that come into the Relationship and becomes Blockers of Rhythm. Keeping your Relationship Strong & Effective takes a lot of work. It doesn't just happen by osmosis. There has to be genuine attention p…

Tony returns with more information on the Relationship Rhythm. In this Episode he gives us "The 4 Major Rhythms of Your Relationship!" These Rhythms are what gives the Relationship the power it needs to become a long lasting Relationship! Being with someone that you Love can be like being in a marching band. If you are in step throughout the perfor…

As Tony begins a new series for the Podcast, he gives us all a great deal to think about. In his theory of Relationship Rhythm Tony outlines in the initial Episode of the series, he needs two questions answered, "What is Relationship Rhythm?" And "Why is It Important?" He answers both in a way that is easy to comprehend. Couples have some kind of R…

This Episode is the part 2 follow up to the previous Episode where Tony was talking about Signs. He continues to give us powerful information for those who are dating. He highlights that Signs will be seen throughout the Relationship to let the individual know that danger is on the way. Too often people let those Signs flow to the back of their mem…

This Episode changes its focus by targeting Couples who are in dating Relationships. There is a very special emphasis on how to keep long lasting Relationships. But in this Episode, Tony highlights "The Signs When To Stop Holding What's Hurting You!" Tony goes into the deep end as he gives examples of the signs that will pop up in Negative Relation…

Tony celebrates the 50th Episode of The Relationship Therapy Podcast with the stats that have happened during the first 49 Episodes. He also introduces a new Episode entitled, "Decisions That Must Be Made in Relationships!" In every Relationship we have to make a decision on whether we are going to be satisfied with what we have or is there somethi…

This is the 3rd and final Episode in the series; "Relationship Comparison!" In this Episode Tony gives us 3 more Reasons to Not Be in Relationship Comparison! So far he has delivered to us enough evidence to stay away from Relationship Comparison. He continues to state his case with this finale of the series. People never realize how much trouble w…

In this Episode, Tony gets down to revealing to us the danger of Relationship Comparison! Relationship Comparison happens when one individual or the other in a Relationship begins watching other Couples to make sure that their Relationship stacks up to other Couples. This Comparison can develop into obsession that, if gone too far, can begin to cau…

The Relationship Therapy Podcast starts Season #3 with a very different type of subject. Tony calls it the "Silent Killer" of Relationships. In this Episode Tony unleashes the information about "The Relationship Comparison!" When we find ourselves Comparing our Relationship to someone else's, we may have opened up a can of worms in our very own Rel…

As Tony is bringing Season 2 to a close, he finishes the season with a powerful Episode for Couples to strive to become. In "5 Ways to Know Your Relationship is Solid" Tony uses experience to showcase what good Relationships look like. With so many Couples finding themselves separating, Tony exposes some secrets to keeping your Relationship in the …

Tony gives us the next 4 Signs That Your Relationship is Ending. These are some things that we need to look out for in all of our Relationships. It's extremely sad when a seemingly good Relationship changes direction and is heading to the Relationship junkyard. All Relationships don't make it to their Fairytale Ending. Sometimes they are halted une…

This Episode can be considered frightening to so many Couples because it can be perceived as negative. Truth is this happens every day. Tony gives us truth about “The 4 Signs That Your Relationship is Ending!” Each Couple has their own share of battles that they have to face. But this one can actually sneak up on you if you are not paying close att…

As we continue the 2nd part of "A Conversation with The Cofers, you'll learn more about the strength of a Couple working together. Tony asks some probing questions to get to the Heart of their Longevity, Loyalty, & Love. The secret to the success of Monica and Maurice Cofer's Marriage & Relationship is actually not a secret. In fact it's all about …

Tony takes time to interview another couple that he has known for over 30 years. In this interview it will help us understand some principles of holding down a Relationship. They talk about how marriage is to work when two people are in Love. During this conversation we will get a glimpse of Love, Longevity & Loyalty. Tony asks them some probing qu…

The world talks so much about today. There seems to be so many opinions on how Marriage should work. In this week's Episode Tony interviews a couple who have been Married for 38 years. They have a story to tell all of the listeners to this podcast. How are they able to make it this far? What happened along the way to help secure their Relationship?…

This Episode highlights for the listener the struggle of not being fully healed before jumping into another Relationship. The person that enters new Relationships can hurt their new mate. The new mate may not even understand what has happened to you in your former Relationship that has caused so much damage to you. I’m not saying that the victim wi…

The best part of Toxic Relationships is when they are over. However, the Toxic Relationship has left some negative residue on the individual who went through it. The way to Recover from the Toxicity seems like it will never happen but you must Not stop trying. This process will take time for you. plus it will take some tremendous effort. Tony tells…

As we start 2023, Tony is completing his series on Toxic Relationships. In the first Episode right before the Holidays Tony talked to us about: "The signs of Toxic Relationships"! In that Episode he gave those signs that we need to be aware of to find out if we are in a Relationship that is Toxic. "How To End Toxic Relationships" takes us to a plac…

Too many Relationships are damaged because there is a shortage of Love! But what do you call a Relationship where your mate makes the Relationship go to being one-sided. One-sided becomes more than what is expected. There seems to be a time where it goes from a bona fide Relationship to one person feeling like they are being held in captivity. Thes…

Too many broken hearts are left to sift through the damaged pieces of their heart. It has them thinking that Relationships are not meant for them. It keeps them looking at Relationships as something that gives them pain after very little pleasure. Tony wanted to address this in this Episode. He wants to let the individuals who have been battered be…

In every Relationship there will be some ups and downs. The truth is that so many Relationships are struggling because of the seemingly guilty culprit called Infidelity. Too many Relationships are destroyed by what the man does. what happens when it is the woman? We barely ever assume that it might be the woman who took the wrong steps in the Relat…

You both have said I Do! Now What? Is there something else that we need to be aware of as we venture into our life together? My answer would be yes. tony takes time to help newly Married Couples get prepared for their first few years together. some Couples make it look easy and still there are some others that will have you not interested in Marria…

Tony has done it again. This message should be a manual of what we should have in our Marriages. He divulges some of the marital aspects that will help move the Marriage forward. No Relationship or Marriage should be stunted in their growth. Each Marriage is different. However, there are some principles that are consistent with Successful Marriages…

Tony uses this Episode to reveal that every Relationship will have some dry seasons. These are the seasons that it seems like you just don't see eye to eye. There is daily arguments, quarrels, and major disagreements that are constantly impacting the Relationship. You have to do something, but you don't know what to do. There could be little things…

This Episode is filled with answered questions. However, there are still questions that need answering for some people! Tony winds up this series entitled, "The Examination of Cheating!" In this series, we have been exposed to so much information that I believe we need to listen to them over and over to get the meat of what's being said. This Episo…

In this Episode Tony brings some much needed joy to the ears of Couples as he ask the question, "Can We Avoid the Temptation of Cheating?" He gives some great advice for individuals who have began going through the Process of Cheating. This relief shows that there are ways that we can use to Avoid the spiraling disability of Infidelity. If we choos…

Tony has been talking about Infidelity in the series; "The Examination of Cheating!" In the first Episode he talked about, The Impact Temptation Has on Relationships, then Tony talked about The Reasons People Cheat. In this Episode Tony will explain "The Process That Leads to Infidelity." There is a Process that people go through before they Cheat.…

Tony has taken us to another level in this Episode. He is talking subject that can destroy Relationships. It's a Marital hurricane that completely knocks the Couple out! This dreadful subject is Infidelity (Cheating). So many Relationships have not made it past the corridors of Infidelity. Tony highlights several reasons used by those who Cheat. Wh…

Tony begins a new series entitled; "The Examination of Cheating!" Cheating is something that destroys Relationships. It breaks down the trust and happiness of a Relationship. The problem with Cheating is that it starts somewhere way before the reality of Cheating even starts. Temptation brings the awareness to Cheating. Temptation gives pathways to…

In this particular Episode, Tony sends out a warning to Couples. He lets the Couples know that there is something looming out there that is seriously dangerous to their Relationship. He is talking about Drifting in Relationships. The title of this Episode is, "Watch Out For The Drift!" Couples aren't always aware of the dangers that lurk in their R…

After spending so much time discovering the Deep Love Stage and it Benefits, Tony finishes up the series, "They Call It Deep Love" by revealing the Signs of Couples in The Deep Love Stage. He let's us know that it takes so much time and effort to reach this Stage in Relationships. He has some Signs that people can notice when they start paying clos…

In the second Episode of Season #2, Tony keeps us going with the Deep Love teaching. We have already understood what the various stages are that we have to go through to arrive at the Deep Love Stage. Now Tony is informing us about the Benefits of being in a Deep Love Stage. Attaining this stage is hard and it will take awhile to achieve. But it is…

In this Episode as Tony begins Season #2, he wants to talk about Deep Love in Relationships. He expresses that there maybe more positive Relationships out there. There is a group of people who are more expressive about their Bad Relationships. Tony is urging couples from good or even great Relationships to get louder about their good Relationship t…

In the Season 1 finale, Tony gives us a glimpse into Season 2 of The Relationship Therapy Podcast. He talks about "How To Recover From Broken Relationships!" He gives special attention to the most forgotten aspect of Relationships, the Broken Relationship. He is planning on having more guest in Season 2. He is there as our encourager for all those …

As Tony is getting ready to wind down the first season of The Relationship Therapy Podcast, he brings back his most beloved guest. His wife Valerie makes another appearance as they begin to talk about a variety of topics. In this Episode, they focus on 4 areas; 1. Funny Stories 2. Marriage Proposal 3. The Vows Mean Something 4. Real Families. These…

At the beginning of this Episode Tony asks a very serious question that will have your mind racing. He wants to know "What is Love?" This Episode is not like any of the other Episodes. Tony goes deep into the Heart of what Relationships should be about. You will e able to gauge where you are in your particular Relationship after listening to this o…

This is the final Episode of the series: "What's the Deal with Conflict?" Throughout this series Tony has placed special emphasis on how important it is for us to learn how to navigate through Conflict in Relationships. He also made it a point for us to understand that conflict is inevitable in Relationships. We were told of Tony's 8 Causes of Conf…