How to AVOID Falling Out of Love and If Your Relationship is WORTH Saving | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

Relationship Theory

One thing nearly every single couple does is argue and have disagreements. Communication allows you both to heal and address the issues that cause the arguments, but what happens when those issues, however small, are not being addressed? Does being pissed off for a day or multiple times in a month, or a year lead to bigger problems? Is it normal to fall out of love with your partner or spouse? Being pissed is one thing, but being in a relationship with someone you no longer like or have love for is an entirely different thing.
In this episode, the main things to know are:
● Do not ignore red flags
● Relationships take a lot of work from both partners
● Speak up about what you want
Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.
SHOW NOTES:
Prevention | Why Tom and Lisa has been able to avoid falling out of love with each other [0:41]
Red Flags | Being annoyed with actions is not same as disliking someone, address it [1:54]
Do the Work | Why would you want to stay in relationship with someone you don’t like [4:36]
Separate Happily | Lisa on her parents divorcing and being happier apart than together [7:09]
Value-Add | Why relationships require work but should give you more value than it takes [9:37]
What You Want | Speaking up about what you want is so important and selfish desires [12:24]
QUOTES:
“Being annoyed with someone hating what they do, is very different than hating the person. Being frustrated, being annoyed with them, being mad at them, being upset with them, is very different than not liking them.” Lisa Bilyeu [2:26]
“It's way more important for us to be connected to never get to the point where I no longer like you or you no longer like me, and in order to do that, you have to say the hard thing, you have to say the things that no one wants to hear.” Lisa Bilyeu [4:18]
“The cost of love is eternal vigilance, like you must be on that forever, you cannot take for granted not for a minute.” Tom Bilyeu [10:18]