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19. The Handbook for Adulting ft. Angela Kim (The Why Moments)

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Instructions on how to be an adult and live happily ever after. Do you want one? What if we were already given one but we just don’t like what is written? In this episode, Angela Kim from The Why Moments Podcast discusses the internal and external pressures of marriage, to have or not have kids, going to therapy, and how to tell all this to your Asian family. Content warning: suicide.

Highlights:

  • Why we confirm and more importantly, what happens when we don’t
  • How to tell your Asian parents you’re not ready for marriage
  • What is it like being the black sheep of a Korean Christian Family?
  • Telling mom about therapy and having panic attacks

Takeaways:

  • Parents can equate their self-worth based on how their children are performing. This is not your responsibility to upkeep.
  • If you want to dance, cry, laugh in public… just do it! The next person will be encouraged by you and we can all be a little more authentic with our emotions
  • You’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t so you might as well do and live life to your own values
  • You don’t need to have something “wrong” in your life to go to therapy

Resources:

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Instructions on how to be an adult and live happily ever after. Do you want one? What if we were already given one but we just don’t like what is written? In this episode, Angela Kim from The Why Moments Podcast discusses the internal and external pressures of marriage, to have or not have kids, going to therapy, and how to tell all this to your Asian family. Content warning: suicide.

Highlights:

  • Why we confirm and more importantly, what happens when we don’t
  • How to tell your Asian parents you’re not ready for marriage
  • What is it like being the black sheep of a Korean Christian Family?
  • Telling mom about therapy and having panic attacks

Takeaways:

  • Parents can equate their self-worth based on how their children are performing. This is not your responsibility to upkeep.
  • If you want to dance, cry, laugh in public… just do it! The next person will be encouraged by you and we can all be a little more authentic with our emotions
  • You’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t so you might as well do and live life to your own values
  • You don’t need to have something “wrong” in your life to go to therapy

Resources:

Enjoyed this episode? Share with a friend! Hit subscribe to get the latest episodes. Leave us a comment and let us know your favourite episode!

----

Tell Kristy & Angie what cringy and uncomfortable conversation topics you want to listen to! Email us, DM, or Record a 60-second voice message. Send us an audio message by clicking here!

Instagram @shitwedonttellmom

Email: shitwedonttellmom@gmail.com

Support the show

The best way to support this show is by listening and sharing with a friend. If you would like to buy a coffee or bubble tea, we would love that too.

----

Instagram @shitwedonttellmom

Email: shitwedonttellmom@gmail.com

www.shitwedonttellmom.com

Send us an audio message by clicking here!

----

We use Buzzsprout as our host because they seamlessly link to major podcast platforms and make it really easy to read analytics. They also have an awesome support team. Sign up today and get a $20 Amazon gift card!

We also use Descript as our editing software because editing with text is much easier than with soundwaves. We are not audio geniuses and want to focus our energy on creating content rather than editing. Sign up today and get your first 3 months free!

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