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Ep. 41 - BDSM & D/s Myths: Breaking Down Common Misconceptions

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We have all heard some myths about BDSM, Kink, and D/s. For those in the communities, these can feel like a slap in the face and often result in shame that hurts on a deeper level than even humiliation play can reach. They also result in misunderstandings and total avoidance to learning more about the world of kink and BDSM to those new to this world. It's time to dispel some that have made their way across my desk recently and provide the research to disprove them, as well as insight into what it's really like in a consensual dynamic.

Links for this episode:

Case Study: What Is So Appealing About Being Spanked, Flogged, Dominated, or Restrained? Answers from Practitioners of Sexual Masochism/Submission published in the Journal of Sex Research

Case Study: Curative Kink: Survivors of Early Abuse Transform Trauma through BDSM published in The Journal of Sexual and Relationship Therapy

Case Study: A Systematic Scoping Review of the Prevalence, Etiological, Psychological, and Interpersonal Factors Associated with BDSM published in the Journal of Sex Research

Case Study: Bondage- Discipline, Dominance - Submission and Sadomasochism (BDSM) From an Integrative Biopsychosocial Perspective: A Systematic Review published in the Journal Of Sexual Medicine

Book: The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Dr. Sefani Goerlich

Article: 94 Non-Binary BDSM Names for Doms & Subs by Sunny Megatron

Book: Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagowski

Book: The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk

Book: Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships by Stella Harris

Book: Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz

Book: Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Helen LaKelly Hunt (Great info on the Imago Dialogue)

Additional Resources:

Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Site: AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists)

Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)

Site: TASHRA's Research

Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality

Site: Center for Positive Sexuality

Site: Sexual Health Alliance

Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University

Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover

Dr. K's Official Website

_____________________

Peep my Instagram

Twitch with me! LIVE

Digital Magazine - Intellectual Intoxication - Dr. K's Gallery Musings & Gallery

Dr. K's Kink-Affirming Holistic Coaching Practice

Additional Resources:

Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)

About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.

Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech

Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover

Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!

_________________________________________________

Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!

1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health

The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear

Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset!

The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy

Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance

SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!

Social Links

Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links

  continue reading

54 episoade

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Manage episode 337769288 series 2805723
Content provided by Dr. K and Dr. K - Holistic Sexuality Educator. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Dr. K and Dr. K - Holistic Sexuality Educator or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ro.player.fm/legal.

We have all heard some myths about BDSM, Kink, and D/s. For those in the communities, these can feel like a slap in the face and often result in shame that hurts on a deeper level than even humiliation play can reach. They also result in misunderstandings and total avoidance to learning more about the world of kink and BDSM to those new to this world. It's time to dispel some that have made their way across my desk recently and provide the research to disprove them, as well as insight into what it's really like in a consensual dynamic.

Links for this episode:

Case Study: What Is So Appealing About Being Spanked, Flogged, Dominated, or Restrained? Answers from Practitioners of Sexual Masochism/Submission published in the Journal of Sex Research

Case Study: Curative Kink: Survivors of Early Abuse Transform Trauma through BDSM published in The Journal of Sexual and Relationship Therapy

Case Study: A Systematic Scoping Review of the Prevalence, Etiological, Psychological, and Interpersonal Factors Associated with BDSM published in the Journal of Sex Research

Case Study: Bondage- Discipline, Dominance - Submission and Sadomasochism (BDSM) From an Integrative Biopsychosocial Perspective: A Systematic Review published in the Journal Of Sexual Medicine

Book: The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Dr. Sefani Goerlich

Article: 94 Non-Binary BDSM Names for Doms & Subs by Sunny Megatron

Book: Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagowski

Book: The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk

Book: Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships by Stella Harris

Book: Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz

Book: Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Helen LaKelly Hunt (Great info on the Imago Dialogue)

Additional Resources:

Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Site: AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists)

Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)

Site: TASHRA's Research

Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality

Site: Center for Positive Sexuality

Site: Sexual Health Alliance

Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University

Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover

Dr. K's Official Website

_____________________

Peep my Instagram

Twitch with me! LIVE

Digital Magazine - Intellectual Intoxication - Dr. K's Gallery Musings & Gallery

Dr. K's Kink-Affirming Holistic Coaching Practice

Additional Resources:

Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)

About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.

Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech

Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover

Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!

_________________________________________________

Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!

1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health

The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear

Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset!

The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy

Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance

SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!

Social Links

Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links

  continue reading

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