Sharing challenges and solutions for growing up with Complex PTSD. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Complex PTSD Recovery: We Are Traumatized Motherfuckers
CPTSD, Intergenerational PTSD, Relational Trauma | TMFR LLC
Peer-review and irreverent dark humor meet trauma recovery, without the "enforced bright sides." Let's talk about the complicated experience of rectifying a life built on trauma and relearning to be human... better than the people who raised you. You aren't alone, damaged, doomed, or dead yet. But with all the grit and gumption necessary to keep growing, you might be a real MF. Get 400+ research-heavy episodes and private community options Patreon.com/traumatizedmotherfuckers or t-mfrs.com f ...
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Discussions of a Latinx woman growing up in Chicago, on a little street called Normal Ave. Delve into my mind with me of how childhood trauma changed a woman's development and life and created the monster known as CPTSD Find me on Twitter @madgirlbluebox Email me at madgirlwithabluebox@gmail.com Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/little-house-on-normal-st/support
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A few signs I've been seeing lately and finishing some things I've been putting off. I'm a big believer in timing.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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4.6. Acting out, Help-rejecting complaining, and Passive Aggression; The (most) Immature Defenses
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Ready to learn about the maladaptive tendencies of your most difficult relational partners? When we don't believe we're "entitled" to a need or emotion, we vent it into (unwise) action. Let's discuss the immature cognitive patterns we/others may still be utilizing to keep our brains "safe." We'll cover the lowest level self-defense mechanisms: Acti…
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Dwelling on your past, and Complex PTSD.
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Dwelling vs Having Fun in life.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Dependent, and why it's the last place you want to be.
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Why being dependent is probably very typical for people with Complex PTSD, and how to be aware of where it's coming from.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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Lacking boundaries causing schizoid feelings.
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When lacking boundaries leads to schizoid feelings. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Relationships and the Middle Ground
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The Middle Ground in regards to relationships.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Article about brain trauma.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Being specific about the type of verbal abuse you experienced. Mine was "Anger Talk".--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Getting proper nutrition for your mind, and sleep.
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Stress and nutrition.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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An article about meditation that I actually am not fond of because it's making it way too complicated.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Prevent feeling trapped, and just say No.
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The importance of preventing situations where we feel trapped. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Why our mind shuts down in certain situations.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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The importance of making rational decisions
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I use a quick example of why it's important to make rational decisions.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Thinking less emotionally and, instead, more rationally.
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A specific subject matter that helped me think less emotionally and, instead, think more rationally. This is very important for people with Complex PTSD.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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What to say to an arrogant person
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Letting an arrogant person know that they too can be condescended to.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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When you're being needy, and something that might help.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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When people who correct you are actually wrong in their correction.
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When condescending people are wrong.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Some organization tips for staying focused and lowering stress --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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The myth of "Drinking Responsibly"
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Something that I think is not true, that anyone can "drink responsibly". --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Acknowledging your accomplishments
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I had a few accomplishments today and I wanted to stress the importance of celebrating your accomplishments.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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AA, Comedy and what I think they're missing.
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Something, I think, certain support groups, and coping strategies, are missing. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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An interview I came across that brought up Complex PTSD --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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How to see outbursts in a more nonjudgmental way.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Who would you be on a reality show?: Part 2
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Some other points about how to look at your own life in a refreshing way.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Who would you be on a reality show?
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Seeing your world differently and not taking everything so seriously.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Some points about Betrayal in relation to Complex PTSD --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Coincidences that are very specific.
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A few recent coincidences that I find really specific.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Book about sobriety and family dynamics.
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Book about sobriety and family dynamics. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Losing the desire to make sense of things that don't make sense.
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Resilience building in regards to things that don't make sense. How I've lost the desire to figure things out that don't make sense, and that's a really good thing. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/sup…
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The Middle Ground in relationships
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Finding the Middle Ground in relationships.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Breaking the tendency to date the wrong people for the wrong reasons.
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Breaking the tendency to date the wrong people for the wrong reasons.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Do condescending people tend to be Enablers?
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Does enabling, spoiling others, and being in denial tend to go hand-in-hand with being condescending? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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A few notes about activities that help calm down your environment --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Current events --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Just a few points about this podcast.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Coping mechanisms and the PTSD brain
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Trauma and coping mechanisms--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Thoughts of self-harm related to entitlement
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When feelings of entitlement (stemming from being spoiled) lead to thoughts of self-harm. And knowing where your depression is coming from.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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How narcissists waste their own time
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How narcissists waste their own time, due to their narcissist defect.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Thinking more rationally, book recommendations
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Four book recommendations from books I've personally read, that I think help people think more rationally.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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People who Antagonize you, Part Two
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A follow-up to my recent episode about antagonizing people.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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The PTSD brain and narrow-minded thinking
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I give 5 scenarios where our PTSD brain might cause narrow-minded thinking and why that Middle Ground is so important.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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Cults: Or Compounds for Complex PTSD
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How I think cults can easily be like compounds for creating Complex PTSD --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Unexpected events, and the Middle Ground
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Unexpected events in relation to thinking more rationally --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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The Middle Ground and Complex PTSD
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Engaging with the Middle Ground. It's one of the hardest things for us to do with Complex PTSD.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Having similar qualities as your abuser
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Having similar qualities as your abuser doesn't mean you are also abusive --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Personal Revelations and Complex PTSD
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A personal revelation I came into this week and why situations that don't make sense are like a crime I must solve.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support…
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How coping mechanisms play into relationships
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How me being spoiled plays a role in my relationships as an adult --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Mental awareness in childhood, and how trauma impacts you
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How our mental maturity in childhood might impact our trauma level. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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How trauma can make us more prone to certain things --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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Being negative and relationships
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How growing up in trauma can make us prone to being negative.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/benjamin-allen-belzer/support
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