Greenhouse Gaslighting is a podcast discussing society and culture with a left-wing, down-to-earth perspective. If you've ever wanted a deep dive on "the issues", but felt like the bar for entry was too high, then this show is for you!
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Hi friend. I’m Sarah Morales - Relationship coach and gaslighting abuse survivor turned specialist. If you’re where I was 13 years ago, then you’re looking for answers; looking for relief from things like confusion, anxiety, doubt, fear. You’re also looking for hope – ESPECIALLY the hope that comes from seeing someone who has been through the same type of hell you are going through emerge on the other side. I’m Sarah, the host of this podcast… I’m a relationship coach and gaslighting thought ...
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Two Rageoholics discuss this crazy messed-up world and the stupid humans who inhabit the planet.
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Oil & Gaslighting is an oilfield lifestyle podcast where we hear the true, real, raw, and unedited stories of the oil patch from the hard working folks who live it every day.
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Wife On The Rocks I Alcoholic Husband, Christian Marriage, High Functioning Alcoholism, Gaslighting, Hope
Christian Alcoholism Relationship Coach, Crisis Parenting Coach
Did you marry the man of your dreams, only to now find alcohol seeping into every part of your family? As a woman of faith, committed to your vows, do you struggle to walk out your convictions amidst the chaos and confusion that has devastated your marriage? Do you wish you had someone to confide in without judgment, consequences later or let’s be honest, hearing the worst advice EVER from well meaning people? Despite your relentless efforts, do you feel betrayed, stuck in a cycle, praying f ...
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Rising from the ashes, phoenix style!
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Almost a year ago, on winter solstice (which is this upcoming Saturday), I wrote this in a social media post. I said: Winter Solstice marks the day with the longest amount of darkness; it marks a SHIFT - the symbolic death and rebirth of the Sun; the gradual waning of daylight hours is reversed and begins to grow again. Death & rising. Darkness rev…
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Ep 04 : PART 3 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Safety 101 : Do You LOVE an Alcoholic? 4 Steps to Guard Your Heart and Home This Christmas.
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What will you do if your husband drives intoxicated? How can you protect your kids from the impacts of alcoholism if things get out of hand? Do you have a plan of how to walk through this valley and make it through these next few weeks? Connect with me at hello@wifeontherocks.com I would LOVE to hear from you. Send a question to the show and you ma…
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Epsiode 113 - Tragedy and Farce
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In this episode we discuss recent events including Trump's recent cabinet picks, as well as recent failures of the Demcratic Party to examine its own role in its defeat, discourse around discourse, and the state of the podcast. I'll keep it a buck with you - I always BS these descriptions but I'll never use AI!!!!!!!!! https://linktr.ee/greenhouseg…
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"You're Just Like Your Mother" - talking about generational patterns
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Here we are, in the middle of all of the end of the year holidays. It’s this weird time that’s a juxtaposition of feeling all the nostalgia, and often romanticizing childhood, AND coming face to face with the jarring reality of the toxic patterns we see in our society, our religious systems, and in our family of origin. Today, my guest and I are go…
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EP 03: PART 2 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Surviving the Holiday Drinking Culture: Are Your BOUNDARIES Ready?
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Holidays and alcohol tend to go hand in hand in our culture. How can we regain some control of this painful reality to manage alcohol's presence at our holiday gatherings this year? -Attend events as normal or decline invitations?? How to make a plan! -Boundary setting Reclaim this season for you and your children. <3 Want to work with me? Book a s…
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"I can do hard things - but only the ones I choose!"
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Many, MANY years ago I discovered this blogger whose blog was called Momastery. There were so many things that drew me to this writer. There have been a number of phrases she said that absolutely changed the way I moved through the world. And one of the things I loved about her the most was how raw and vulnerable she was with how effing hard life i…
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EP 02 : PART 1 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Parenting With an Alcoholic Husband This Season? Tips for Peace & Joy with Kids.
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Have you ever felt paralyzed trying to plan the holidays because your husband refuses to commit or follow through? In this episode, we’ll explore the heartbreak unilateral parenting with an alcoholic husband brings to this season. Learn how to create a holiday plan that gives your kids joy—even when you’re doing it alone. I’ll share real-life examp…
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Ep 01 You’re Not Crazy: Finding God Amidst Gaslighting in Your Alcoholic Marriage
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Welcome to Wife on the Rocks! Have you ever felt crazy in your alcoholic marriage? Does it feel like you are the keeper of secrets and no one else knows what is happening behind closed doors? You are not alone. God sees everything.De către Bethany Dettmer - Relationship Coach for Christian Women, Alcoholism Impact Coach for Christian Wives
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Are you a Christian wife in an Alcoholic Marriage? Do things seem really complicated in your relationship? Do you struggle to put words to how you are feeling and what is happening in your home? You are NOT alone <3 Welcome to Wife on the Rocks Podcast.De către Bethany Dettmer - Relationship Coach for Christian Women, Alcoholism Impact Coach for Christian Wives
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Episode 112 - Democalypse 2024 - "$1 Billion Disaster"
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It's about time we ended our Democalypse 2024 segment with the whole team to decompress about the recent national election. We discuss results, campaign and strategy failures, but more importantly, the inability of those responsible to take accountability and the implications for all of us. Ending Track: Excerpt from Pod Save America Podcast https:…
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The Beauty and Power of the Yes/And
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As we head into the holidays, life can get really, really tricky. Family pressure. Cultural/societal pressure. Internal pressure. Pressure to put on a smile and be happy. And this month especially – pressure to have “an attitude of gratitude”. And yet – for so, so many of us, this can not only feel fake, but actually add to our struggles. So today,…
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Take Back the Holidays (Special Bonus Episode)
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Register for the workshop here! The holidays bring a *special* challenge for MANY of us... 🍂Parallel parenting with a GASLIGHTING ex 🍂Toxic family gatherings where old patterns take you right back to feeling like that powerless child 🍂 Triggers and GASLIGHTING responses between intimate partners where betrayal trauma has happened If you resonate wi…
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Episode 111 - UC Timeline for GUNDummies
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This one is purely to pad the numbers - we're getting into a breakdown into the UC timeline and themes of Gundam If the video doesn't work try YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z56Avw94AGk All Links on:https://linktr.ee/greenhousegaslightingUseful Links and sources: https://forums.sufficientvelocity.com/threads/zenkyoto-a-brief-overview-on-th…
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I thought I'd get eaten by a shark!
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Fear. It’s a topic I revisit often on my podcast, because it can be a confusing one, especially since fear can sometimes be a helpful emotion. For example, fearing the pain that will happen if I touch fire helps alert me to the danger of fire. While it’s an important emotion that can alert us to pay attention to what’s going on around us, it is als…
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Episode 110 - Origins of MY Discontents
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Back with some non-election content! We'll be taking a critical look at Isabel Wilkerson's 2020 book Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents, as we discuss what we deem to be shortcomings and major missteps in the book's treatment of both race and caste, as well as the hype surrounding the book in liberal media circles. All Links on:https://linktr.ee…
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Episode 109 - Democalypse 2024 - Nobody Wants to Vote Anymore
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Another fast and loose current events ep - more is on the way - Stay Tuned! https://linktr.ee/greenhousegaslighting
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Gaslighting and our children… this is such a huge, heavy, and important aspect of so many people in life that while I planned on having just one episode on the topic, I ended up having two. In the last episode, my guest and I addressed the question: Am I gaslighting my kid? In this episode, we’re going to address the questions: Did my kid just try …
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Gaslighting and our children… is there any place that feels more critical than this for those of us who are parents? Have you ever wondered about any of the following? Am I gaslighting my kid? Did my kid just try to gaslight me? What does that mean if they did? How can I help my kid be “gaslighting resistant”? I’ve heard every single one of these q…
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Episode 108 - Democalypse 2024 - Art of the L
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Sorry for the delay but we are back!!!! We played fast and loose with this one covering last night's presidential debate and the overall vibe since we last got on the podcast https://linktr.ee/greenhousegaslighting
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It’s back to school season, and as such, this month my two podcast episodes are going to be focused on supporting all the parents out there. One of the most difficult places we can experience GASLIGHTING is when we are having to “parallel parent” with a GASLIGHTING ex. The stories I’ve heard throughout my career of how this has played out would bre…
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When you walk through the wrong door...
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I saw a picture of a sign that read, “better to admit you walked through the wrong door than spend your life in the wrong room”. I felt that. There have been big and small ways I’ve LIVED that. We ALL have ended up walking through the wrong door a time or two in our lives. Being able to recognize when we’ve ended up in the wrong room is crucial to …
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Joy and pain. Sunshine and rain.
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Life can be really, really hard sometimes. Trauma. Betrayal. Gaslighting… fear, pain, abandonment… it can be immobilizing. It’s not surprising that these things can (and often do) lead to depression. I remember being in some pretty dark places after the discovery of my ex’s deviant sexual behaviors – especially in the early days. One thing that I l…
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The Peace & Power of stepping into Sacred Self-Responsibility
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Along my journey of deconstructing and unpacking all the ways gaslighting had impacted me throughout my life, there’s one key lesson that, if I hadn’t learned, I don’t think I’d ever have found the ability to stay connected to my authentic self, nor live from the place of authentic power. That lesson can be summed up in these three words: sacred se…
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Episode 107 - Democalypse 2024: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Context of All in Which I Live and What Came Before Me
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We're back and coming in hot with a major discussion on these eventful few days with Biden stepping out of the race, an assassination attempt on Trump, an editorial discussion on Kamala Harris's prospects in the coming days and an extended rant on the RNC, JD Vance, and how Fordism haunts all political discourse. https://linktr.ee/greenhousegasligh…
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There are a lot of words these days that are misunderstood. “Triggered” is one such word. It’s also a very important word, as it’s one of those words that can help us both recognize what’s happening to us, as well as help us communicate to others what is happening to us. So today, my guest and I are going to help bring clarity to the things surroun…
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Episode 106 - Democalypse 2024 - Debate and Supreme Court Post-Mortem
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In this episode Adi and Josh examine the reactions and consequences of the disastrous recent presidential debate, the recent sweeping Supreme Court term, and enter an editorial discussion to predict and speculate on coming events. https://linktr.ee/greenhousegaslighting
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Where on your list of priorities is doing things to care for yourself? How much time and energy do you put into things that bring you joy or “fill your bucket”? How you answered these questions likely reflects your beliefs – conscious OR unconscious – about self-care. And of course we struggle to give ourselves permission to do self-care. We’ve bee…
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"I'm still working on my masterpiece"
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A few years ago, I had my founding members group for my Empowerment program. Before we began, I asked them to share the songs that helped bring them back to themselves. Some truly amazing songs came of that. One of the songs that I found that captured the journey the group was going on was Masterpiece, by Jessie J. The chorus says: I still fall on …
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Talking about body LIBERATION!
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Have you ever seen that Dove “Real Beauty” sketches campaign video – the one where the women met a stranger, and after some time talking, that stranger gave their description to an FBI forensics artist. Then the women described themselves to that same artist. AND THEN, they had the big reveal of the difference between the stranger’s description and…
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Episode 105 - Democalypse 2024 - India Edition w/@decrepitzoomer
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Episode has been reuploaded since original release due to an editing error - the end track was starting along with the rest of the episode - my apologies to the listeners Told y'all we're back! On this episode we're joined by friend of the show Anand (@decrepitzoomer) to talk about the results and implications of the 2024 Indian elections, as well …
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Episode 104 - Retrospective on Campus Encampments
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We did our best to recover audio for this episode- we apologize for audio issues again. In this episode we discuss the recent wave of bold and principled student action across American campuses to divest from Israel and discuss conditions from the ground at the University of Michigan and Wayne State University encampements. https://linktr.ee/greenh…
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Do you remember what your dreams were when you were a kid… or maybe when you were a teenager. How about as you entered into your mid-twenties? Were you encouraged to dream, or told dreaming was foolish or a waste of time? And here’s the big one: were your dreams crushed by betrayal and/or gaslighting? Any number of these things can disconnect us fr…
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Episode 103 - Democalypse 2024 - Guilty Trump, Lurching Biden
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Note - there is an audio issue with certain segments having gaps that I wasn't able to fix - Please forgive the inconvenience Resuming our current events and politics coverage, we cover the recent guilty verdict given to Trump, as well as Biden's recent controversial move on border policy. We also brought back our reading series discussing Ken Silv…
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Have you seen those social media posts that go something like this – and I quote: “After all that she gave him, imagine what she’ll be able to give to the next person…” and then it says, “Not a thing, because he broke her.” I HATE that picture. That belief that somehow, because of the trauma that I or my clients have been through, we’re somehow now…
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Episode 102 - Movie Magic - Monkey Man
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Movie Magic (and the pod) is back once again! In this episode Adi and Skyy discuss Dev Patel's debut film Monkey Man - and get into the film's examination of a fictionalized India rife with layered social commentary, righteous vengenace in all the welcome trappings of an action thriller, and the stress of having a take in an increasingly limited an…
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"I should've listened to my gut!"
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Have you ever had that little nudge – you know, the one that tells you something isn’t right. Or the one that alerts you to some bad energy from the guy over in the produce section? And how many times did you talk yourself out of listening to that little nudge? Why do we do that? Well, today my guest and I are going to talk about the ways we do thi…
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As a child in the 80’s, I remember being at the skating rink and playing Limbo on skates. Yep, I was that kid. LOL The song, “Limbo rock” would start, and EVERYONE knew it was time… every limbo boy and girl all around the limbo world… la la la la la la la… limbo lower now… limbo lower now … how low can you go? And the competition would begin to see…
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Do you “should all over yourself”? I remember one of the first times my wise mama said something to that effect. “I try not to should all over myself.” It wasn’t until quite a few years later that I connected the dots to that saying and self-gaslighting. Here’s the thing though, while I try to avoid using the word, “should”. It’s not ALWAYS self-ga…
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What comes to mind for you when I say the words, “Self-Gaslighting”? For some of us, we automatically resonate, and know that we have, indeed, done this to ourselves. For others, the old definition of gaslighting we may know brings resistance, as we can’t help but hear some sort of victim blaming. In my practice, the MOST powerful transformations h…
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"His nicknames for me were Monkey and Ugly"
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Did you experience gaslighting in your family of origin? While most of my clients find me to help heal from the gaslighting they’ve experienced in their intimate partnership, almost every single one eventually begins to see how the gaslighting they’ve endured goes all the way back to things that happened in their childhood. Today, I’ve brought on a…
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When the boss tells you to "Calm Down"
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When you stop and do the math, what consumes most of your time? When you think about the relationships that may involve GASLIGHTING, what makes the top of your list? Was work your first or second response? If not, it might need to be. So today I’m going to talk just a little bit about GASLIGHTING in the work environment. I’m Sarah Morales, the host…
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Welcome to Deconstructing Gaslighting the podcast. I’m your host, Sarah Morales. Today’s episode may be one of the most difficult I’ve ever done, and that’s because the topic is SO TRICKY. It’s also super, super important. So, I’m going to ask that you hang with us for a bit. If it feels like a sensitive topic to you, I invite you to give my guest …
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Episode Thirteen - Brandon Davis
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In this episode, Brandon Davis from Trek One Capital joins us to hear Lyoid's air fryer joke - again and we learn a little bit about how the chocolate business can be more profitable than the oil business. Happy viewing. Oil & Gaslighting is an oilfield lifestyle podcast where we hear the actual, real, raw, and unedited stories of the oil patch fro…
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This episode is going to be a tough one. Today my guest and I are going to talk about racial and cultural gaslighting. I say this is going to be a tough one, because as a white woman who, for the majority of her life, lived as a white, cis-gender, heterosexual, Christian woman, I was near the top of privilege – EVEN though I didn’t know it. And tha…
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"It's especially hard when you've been GASLIT that long!"
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Welcome to Deconstructing Gaslighting the podcast, and welcome to a new month, with a new theme. This month we’re going to be exploring different areas or relationships people experience gaslighting in, and we’re going to start with the one that people are typically MOST aware of – gaslighting in their intimate partnership. And I’m REALLY excited t…
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Welcome to Deconstructing Gaslighting the podcast, I’m your host, Sarah Morales, and today’s episode it going to be a bit different. On Tuesday of last week, I put the final touches on my next speaking opportunity at a summit. The theme of the summit is post-traumatic growth, and my title, "I no longer fear the storm". Irony can be a bitch, because…
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How much did you talk about sex and human sexuality growing up? What were the messages you got about sex and sexuality religiously, culturally, or even racially? I imagine MANY of you were like me and didn’t necessarily have many direct conversations about sex and sexuality, but oh were the messages you received culturally and religious LOUD! So, t…
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Episode Twelve Part Two - Bryan McDowell
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In part two of this episode, the boys continue their conversation with Bryan McDowell from Sabata Energy Consultants and talk about geologist field camp, pork choppin, and Bryan offers a few tips for the young bucks wanting to join the industry. Happy viewing. Oil & Gaslighting is an oilfield lifestyle podcast where we hear the actual, real, raw, a…
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Episode 101 - Democalypse 2024 - Descent into Sadness
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Resuming our current events and politics coverage, we cover recent controversies over Boeing and Tiktok, as well as the state of the current presidential primary and explore the contours of understanding the current electorate, and much more. https://linktr.ee/greenhousegaslighting
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Episode Twelve Part One - Bryan McDowell
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In this episode, the boys sit down with Bryan McDowell from Sabata Energy Consultants and welcome our first geologist to the show. We learn a bit more about tattoos, how to make beer money in natty flats, and what's happening with old data in west Texas. Happy viewing. Oil & Gaslighting is an oilfield lifestyle podcast where we hear the actual, rea…
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