Father and Joe E383: Healing Wounds from the Past and Overcoming Control – Trusting in God’s Guidance

Father and Joe

In this heartfelt episode of Father and Joe, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks explore the deep-rooted issues of trust, control, and healing. Through an insightful conversation, they uncover how past wounds, fear, and betrayal shape our present lives, impacting everything from relationships to business leadership. Joe opens up about his experiences as a consultant, where he helps business owners learn to delegate and trust others. The challenge many face, however, is letting go of control and learning to trust after being hurt.
Father Boniface reflects on how our need to control, whether in business or personal relationships, often stems from past pain and disappointment. "If you want to go fast, go alone. But if you want to go far, go together," he shares, illustrating the importance of collaboration and trust. He emphasizes that it’s essential to look inward and explore the reasons we struggle with these control issues: “We don't trust unless we have a reason for it…often an experience of betrayal or disappointment."
In this episode, we are reminded that healing begins with understanding and nurturing our hearts. By revisiting past experiences and facing them with compassion, we can break the cycle of fear and control. Joe describes a practice of "quietly entering your mind and witnessing memories without judgment." This gentle process, as discussed, can lead to significant personal growth: "It's remarkable how the Google search of past hurts in your mind starts to shrink."
Father Boniface offers wisdom on how to approach this healing process, encouraging listeners to engage with trusted friends or spiritual counselors when needed. The journey of healing and trust is not one to walk alone—God is there with us every step of the way. "God has a vested interest in you," Father Boniface reminds us, underscoring the importance of relying on God’s love to heal our deepest wounds.
By the end of this episode, you’ll gain profound insights into:
How to recognize the root causes of control and trust issues.
Practical steps to begin healing emotional wounds from the past.
The importance of letting others into our lives and learning to trust again.
As you listen to Father Boniface and Joe’s conversation, consider this gentle invitation: Where in your life are things not working, and what steps can you take toward healing? Whether it’s in your personal relationships, parenting, or business life, God invites you to start the process of letting go, trusting others, and finding peace.
Tune in and discover how faith and reflection can lead you to greater healing and wholeness!
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