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Episode 143 Just the father talking again

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Just talking about how the "Child Support" agency got back to me last Wednesday.
I speak about what I have learned in the courtroom as a prose litigant over the years. I understand that there are parents that have a child or children right now, and they are wondering what can be done, right now. The answer is NOTHING American law is on the side of "Child Support" right now. For the future though, file a petition to modify the current order as soon as possible, like tomorrow or this week or something. Then when you are asked about modification then you want that modification to start on the day that the petition was first filed. That is what I did. It was exactly 1 year after I filed that petition, and I was asked in private mediation what I wanted to get done. I highly recommend private mediation because public mediation is a joke. I was only asked about what I needed to get done in private mediation. Public mediation only cared about the $120.00 wasted that I paid That was in addition to the $798.22 I had already paid and the back "Child Support" of over 10K that I also paid and was utter B.S. anyway. The "Child Support" agency will screw you over as a parent, and the "Family" court system will knowingly help them do it.

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Just talking about how the "Child Support" agency got back to me last Wednesday.
I speak about what I have learned in the courtroom as a prose litigant over the years. I understand that there are parents that have a child or children right now, and they are wondering what can be done, right now. The answer is NOTHING American law is on the side of "Child Support" right now. For the future though, file a petition to modify the current order as soon as possible, like tomorrow or this week or something. Then when you are asked about modification then you want that modification to start on the day that the petition was first filed. That is what I did. It was exactly 1 year after I filed that petition, and I was asked in private mediation what I wanted to get done. I highly recommend private mediation because public mediation is a joke. I was only asked about what I needed to get done in private mediation. Public mediation only cared about the $120.00 wasted that I paid That was in addition to the $798.22 I had already paid and the back "Child Support" of over 10K that I also paid and was utter B.S. anyway. The "Child Support" agency will screw you over as a parent, and the "Family" court system will knowingly help them do it.

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Today, I want to talk about what happens in the courtroom and how to behave in there. Always address the Judge or magistrate as “your honor” or judge. I have never been in front of a magistrate, but I would call them “Judge” or look up on the internet how to address them. Keep in mind that bad things are going to happen in this courtroom no matter what. In any other court case a continuance would be awesome, but what “Child Support” does is calculate what ever amount the judge orders retroactively back to the birth of the child. I did not know this at the time, but what you want to do is establish a date in which “Child Support” starts accruing and you want to make that date as close to the present date as possible. This is very important! Remember, this is a “FAMILY” action. What is happening here is that there is a division of family and their assets going on here. The lawyers and judges and the entire court system want to assign a monetary value to everything possible, the problem with that is that there is no way to put a price on family life, but they have a lot of power so they do just that, all the time. Since American law is on the side of “Child Support” all parents are deadbeat parents to these judges and magistrates. Pay no attention to the lies or embellishments of the other side and their lawyers. Their job is to make you look as bad as they possibly can in front of that judge. Your job is to get that number down as low as possible. Whatever number they spit out, if I haven’t heard it before, I am going to balk at it, cut it in half, everything and anything to get it as low as possible because what that judge says is usually what they write in the order. The Judge and the lawyer for the other side just want to get this case done so that they can move on to the next one. I would use that to my advantage. I would spit out a lower number and say if we can get here, we can get this entire case done right now. If the judge agrees to that number, the lawyer for the other side usually will go along with the judge and try to get their client there too. Make sure to also have the medical care (health insurance for that child) taken care of because the paying parent will also have to be on the hook for that. In the case of a loss of a job, if one parent is named as the provider of health insurance that parent will be responsible for that health insurance until “Child Support” runs out no matter what happens. If the insurance company goes under, or if that job is lost for whatever reason “Child Support” does not care about anything but that judgment. Remember that, there is no “Ill get you next month” “Child Support” wants their money right now. All episodes are created and edited by Sean L.…
 
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The best thing that can be done is to use your mobile device to build your case with. Gmail accounts come with 15 GB of free space. I have an email address that I just use for dealing with the "Child Support" agency. I started using it in 2019 and as of right now, it is not even close to half full. The method that is used to collect from parents now is very bad. Do no expect the other parent to behave civil towards you. The other parent has requested the serv ices prom the "Child Support" agency and from that point on the family is now going to be treated like criminals. If there is a child then that child needs to be supported, if a parent applies for American Government assistance that is also an application for "Child Support" services. I promise you, if you request anything from the American Government, you are going to pay dearly for that decision All episodes are created and edited by Sean L.…
 
Just talking about my story, navigating the "Child Support" system in America. American Law beats logic every single time. The "Family" Court system and the "Child Support" enforcement system are in complete lockstep with each other. They both think they are actually helping these children, even knowing their obvious abuse can be proven, they do not care about anything other than taking the money of parents. Here is the actual audio file sent to me from the court reporter I always use. This judge knew what was about to happen, but he did not care about anything else other than getting my case out of his court room. All episodes are created and edited by Sean L.…
 
Just talking about my experience with the "child support" agency, part 1. It has been a very long, very hard road, but it is now behind me, and I am Grateful. I remember before, she wasn't even pregnant with our son yet. We were at her friend's house and her friends' boyfriend was having "Child Support" problems with his ex. When we left there we got in the car, and she said out of the clear blue to me "I would never do that to you" I believed her, I did that a lot. She paid large sums of money to a lawyer and the to the "Family Court" system to hurt the child. I did not know how treacherous she was/is. It turns out that she is treacherous, she is a bad human, and the problem I created for myself was her. In any relationship, there is always 1 person that is smarter than the other. It ended up being a hug help, but she is/was is stupid, and I am not. I just wanted to pay "Child Support" to her and spend time with my son when ever I could. Being ignorant, she had to involve the government in our Family life. It did not matter my choice to do business with them or not, they are going to do business with me no matter what I want. She thinks what they say "They are actually helping these kids" They are not and they do not care. I just wanted to pay, see my son, and go about my business. She go so hung up on hating me, that she hurt our son too. It is over now though, there is no January 2025 payment due to them, Today is Christmas Eve 2024. All episodes are created and edited by Sean L.…
 
Just talking about how the "Child Support" agency got back to me last Wednesday. I speak about what I have learned in the courtroom as a prose litigant over the years. I understand that there are parents that have a child or children right now, and they are wondering what can be done, right now. The answer is NOTHING American law is on the side of "Child Support" right now. For the future though, file a petition to modify the current order as soon as possible, like tomorrow or this week or something. Then when you are asked about modification then you want that modification to start on the day that the petition was first filed. That is what I did. It was exactly 1 year after I filed that petition, and I was asked in private mediation what I wanted to get done. I highly recommend private mediation because public mediation is a joke. I was only asked about what I needed to get done in private mediation. Public mediation only cared about the $120.00 wasted that I paid That was in addition to the $798.22 I had already paid and the back "Child Support" of over 10K that I also paid and was utter B.S. anyway. The "Child Support" agency will screw you over as a parent, and the " Family " court system will knowingly help them do it. All episodes are created and edited by Sean L.…
 
Just talking about how the child support website says that I owe $300.00 still. I have uploaded pictures explaining everything. I included a screenshot of the email from the child's mother advising that the Child that they are collecting "Child Support" on, graduated from high school and is enrolled in college. I also uploaded a copy of the current signed order that they are working off of right now which outlines that I am supposed to pay when the child turns 18 or when he graduates from college, which ever comes last. Their site still says I owe $300.00 for January 1st 2025 which is a bunch of crap the judgement says I do not have to pay any more and the Hillsborough Clerk's office also says that too. All I know is that I don't need them to enforce anything that is not supposed to be. All episodes are created and edited by Sean L.…
 
Just talking about how I submitted a question last week to the "Child Support" agency asking if I need to make a payment for January 01, 2025, and they finally advised that I did not, and I was elated. There is still a process that I need to complete with the court system in Hillsborough County, FL. I have a court date in February 2025 scheduled via ZOOM because the other parent is in Greece. I captured the email that the "Child Support" agency sent to me last week. I looked at the first letter that I ever got from them, and it was in 2009. So I have been dealing with them ever since, and they are horrible. The "child support" agency knows that the law is on their side, and they do horrible things to parents all the time, and they are like no we didn't. The only sure fire way to not have to deal with them is to not have kids in the first place and if you already have a "Child Support" Judgment, then just pay it always so that you do not have to deal with them. All episodes are created and edited by Sean L.…
 
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Just talking about Hurricane Milton and its impact on Tampa Bay. That storm was only a category 3 storm, and it did a lot of damage to Tampa Bay. There was no gas at any gas stations throughout Tampa Bay, FL. I was fortunate enough to have a Prius, and I put only 10 dollars in it the Sunday before the storm. I used that car to charge my phone and my mother's phone and she also had a battery that took like 6 hours to charge but would charge our phones several times. I had multiple tri-chargers and they came in pretty handy. So we managed to make it through the storm with minimal damage to our unit. In December of this year my son turns 18 years old so I will no longer have to pay "Child Support" each month. I am pretty excited about that. I will be very grateful that I no longer will have to pay each month to not go to jail. All episodes are created and edited by Sean L.…
 
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