How We Get Into The Cycle of Resentment and Anger With Our Partners

Thrive Like A Parent

EP:94 On this week’s episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast we are going to explore strategies for breaking cycles of resentment and rebuilding intimacy in relationships.
Some key points I will discuss are:
✅ Working with couples individually on emotional/sensory regulation can be more effective than traditional couples counseling
✅ Accepting your partner as an individual, rather than trying to control them, is important
✅ Focus on your own self-care and regulation to rebuild trust and deeper connection
✅ Understand your own nervous system and learn to self-regulate emotions/behaviors
✅ Avoid over-caring for partner/child, allow them to develop independence
✅ Have open, compassionate conversations about emotional states, not judgment
✅ Teach self-regulation skills to children/partner rather than being the sole regulator
✅ Address underlying issues like dysregulation or disconnection impacting intimacy
✅ Intimacy requires consent, communication, and addressing resentment/anger
Focus on yourself, communicate openly with empathy, and support your partner’s self-regulation for a healthier, more intimate relationship. Trust me you don’t want to miss this one.
XOXO,
Dr. B
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