E10 A Very Special Threesome (And How We Made It Happen)

Deeper Sex - A Sex Positive Podcast Exploring Fantasies And Boundaries

Today we are exploring more fantasies…

Have you dreamt of joining a threesome but never dared ask your partner? It’s a universal fantasy, and one that can become reality with trust and good communication.

In this episode, we share another intimate experience where we pushed our sexual boundaries further than ever before: Will is away on an expedition, but agrees to “lend” Chiara for the night as a Unicorn to Allie and her husband…

He talks vulnerably about his internal struggle between a positively erotic idea and the negative social conditioning around masculinity and ownership that would mark this as “wrong”.

He also explains the strong bond he created with Allie’s man, the complete trust and clear communication that they have, highlighting the significance of male, brotherly energy and trust.

Our goal in sharing this story is to show you what’s possible when the bond in a couple is so strong, and complete trust has been achieved: we would have not been able to do this before our sexual deconditioning journey began!

We want to inspire others to embrace sexual liberation by learning communication, vulnerability and fun in a relationship.

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00:00 A Charged Night on a Cold Mountain

01:32 A Our Goal For Today’s Episode

02:44 The Unicorn Experience

02:57 What Is A Unicorn

04:29 A Bold Experiment: Lending My Girl for a Night

04:29 The Caving Expedition

05:05 An Unforgettable Night

06:02 The Sexy Shenanigans Begin

08:28 No Panties Date!

10:11 A Buffet Of Toys

12:03 A Wild Night On Top Of A Mountain

13:01 Reflections and Revelations: The Aftermath of an Erotic Adventure

14:06 Allie's Experience

14:23 What The Depth Of A Strong Bond Can Bring

15:12 The Potential Risks Of Damaging Relationships

15:56 Chiara's Side: What It Feels Like To Be A Unicorn

16:32 Your Husband Made Me Feel So Safe I Could Relax

17:22 The Mind Battling With Conditioning

18:36 Don’t Fuck It Up

21:10 Will's Takeaways

22:43 You Need A Healthy Balance

24:05 Testing Boundaries: Now We Know What We CAN do

24:58 Why We Do This

27:15 Your Husband Is A Honorable Man

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WHO IS WILL

Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.

WHO IS CHIARA

Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.

WHO IS ALLIE

Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.

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