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E22 - Why do I feel like apologising all the time?
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A lifelong struggle I've had is that I have a compulsion to apologise all the time for myself. It's almost like I have to apologise pre-emptively just for being odd or weird or something, and I've come to see the role that ADHD has played in this trait since my diagnosis. In this episode I dig into what I've discovered about this frustrating aspect of my personality, and where specifically I think it comes from.
In this episode:
- How rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) plays a role in over-apologising.
- How experiences when we're young impact our self-worth.
- Why reassurance is great, but never quite sinks in.
- Calibrating where the line is between masking and self-regulation.
- How it can be difficult to unmask even with friends.
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Note: This podcast is shared purely as first-hand experiences to help others and should not be considered medical advice. Listeners should seek proper guidance if they have concerns or questions of a medical nature.
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Manage episode 447924398 series 3555828
A lifelong struggle I've had is that I have a compulsion to apologise all the time for myself. It's almost like I have to apologise pre-emptively just for being odd or weird or something, and I've come to see the role that ADHD has played in this trait since my diagnosis. In this episode I dig into what I've discovered about this frustrating aspect of my personality, and where specifically I think it comes from.
In this episode:
- How rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) plays a role in over-apologising.
- How experiences when we're young impact our self-worth.
- Why reassurance is great, but never quite sinks in.
- Calibrating where the line is between masking and self-regulation.
- How it can be difficult to unmask even with friends.
Support Glitchy Switch:
Instagram 👉🏻 https://bit.ly/3Tumtaq
LinkedIn 👉🏻 https://bit.ly/3wK0pzz
Facebook 👉🏻 https://bit.ly/4avKVOB
Note: This podcast is shared purely as first-hand experiences to help others and should not be considered medical advice. Listeners should seek proper guidance if they have concerns or questions of a medical nature.
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