Let's Chat With Will & Tony podcast

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As I, Tony Peck, joined forces with Will Kesley to share heartfelt insights, we found ourselves delving into the transformative power of grit and faith. We navigate through the intricacies of a listener's poignant struggle with her son's premature return from his mission and the crossroads they face. Is he ready to re-enter the fray? Our conversation becomes a treasure trove of strategies for anyone bracing to recommit to arduous life journeys, emphasizing the indispensable role of tough love and the wisdom of stepping away from our screens to assess our preparedness for the challenges ahead. Through the lens of personal conviction, this episode illuminates the intersection between faith and fortitude, especially within the LDS community. I share from my own reservoir of experiences, revealing the profound influence that personal sacrifice and true ownership of one's path can have in bolstering perseverance. We discuss the crucial act of aligning religious practice with one's own beliefs, an endeavor that not only strengthens spiritual foundations but also girds us against life's inevitable storms. We wrap up with a frank discussion about the principles of brain functioning and the role of spirituality in managing life's adversities. Touching on the delicate balance between the physiological aspects of the brain and the essence of self, we explore how the understanding of our brain can reshape our approach to challenges. The episode journeys into the transformative potential of grit—be it on a personal mission, professional endeavor, or any undertaking demanding resilience—and how the embrace of tough love can catalyze growth and the capacity to endure. Join us as we share these narratives, packed with guidance and personal anecdotes, encouraging you to muster the courage needed to face life's trials with determination and grace. Support the show…

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"Grit", the Key to Success: SEG 2 of 2: Cultivating Resilience and Tough Love for Life's Toughest Lessons 16:48

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Failure hit me hard during my early days in nuclear engineering, particularly at my oral board exam. The sting of defeat was a critical juncture, forcing me to choose between giving in to dejection or harnessing it as fuel for persistence. Together with my co-host Tony, we unravel the fabric of grit and resilience, the twin forces essential for triumphing over life's relentless hurdles. Our discourse takes you through the trenches of the military's most elite units, where mental toughness is forged in the crucible of the most grueling training imaginable, proving that resilience is not exclusive to physical capabilities but extends deep into the psychological realm. When the conversation turns to the art of parenting, it's a delicate balance between nurturing and tough love that we dissect. Reliving a watershed moment with my daughter, I reveal how shielding our nearest and dearest from adversity can inadvertently deprive them of crucial growth experiences. As we navigate these intricate dynamics, we clarify the distinction between firm guidance and outright cruelty, always advocating for struggle as a natural part of developing resilience. By the end of our talk, you'll understand why letting go is sometimes the most supportive act of love and how it can empower those we care for to build their own character, much like a fledgling bird learning to fly. Support the show…

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The Lie of New Social Norms: SEG 1 of 2 - The Pursuit of Happiness Through Selflessness and Valued Relationships 25:56

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During a recent scroll through my social media feed, I was struck by the stark contrast between the glossy images and the unspoken realities of life—prompting a deep dive into the facade of perfection we often present to the world. Alongside Tony and the provocative European author Corinne Maier, we confront the complexities of modern life, peeling back the layers on societal expectations and feminist myths. We ponder the pitfalls of a digitally-dominant existence and celebrate the true contentment found in the fabric of our real-world connections, from the bonds of family to the simple acts of kindness that define our humanity. Experiencing a close friend's sudden passing and supporting my wife through her cancer journey has profoundly shifted my perspective on what truly matters. We delve into the essence of personal relationships and how they shape our legacies, challenging Corinne Maier's controversial advice which seems to tilt the scales towards self-interest. It's a candid conversation on the happiness we derive from our roles in our family's lives, with stories of love, loss, and the unwavering human spirit that seeks joy in the welfare of others, rather than in isolation. The feeling of slipping on those tiny pink Crocs for my granddaughter brought an unexpected surge of joy, a moment of clarity in the chaos of our fast-paced lives. We riff on this emotion, discussing the profound impact of selflessness on our happiness and the fulfillment that comes with lifting others. As we share the joys of grandparenthood and successful partnerships, we underscore the invaluable role of women and the secret sauce to a harmonious marriage. Our listeners chime in, echoing sentiments that at life's twilight, it's not our self-centered achievements we hold dear, but the love and memories we've created for and with others. Support the show…

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The Lie of New Social Norms: SEG 2 of 2 - The Pursuit of Happiness Through Selflessness and Valued Relationships 16:08

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Can happiness truly be found at the heart of self-centeredness? This episode takes a critical look at a best-selling author's claim that putting oneself first is the key to a joyful life. We counter this perspective with a deep dive into the richness of emotional connections and the often underappreciated beauty of selflessness. As we unravel this debate, we also reflect on the poignant storytelling of Disney movies, where parental loss is a common thread - could these narratives be shaping our views on family and the handling of trauma in ways we haven't fully acknowledged? Moreover, we step into the intersection of culture and personal journeys as we dissect the growing trend of divorce jewelry. What does this say about the value we place on marriage, and could it be that society is flirting with the notion of commitment as an outdated concept? With a landscape of relationships that is ever-evolving, our conversation pivots to the complexities surrounding divorce - is the burgeoning practice of commemorating one's split with jewelry a cause for celebration or a moment for somber contemplation? We probe the symbolism behind the transformation of wedding rings from symbols of unity to emblems of individuality. Recognizing that, for some, divorce might be a liberating decision, particularly from toxic partnerships, we nonetheless question if the casualness with which the institution of marriage is increasingly treated could be undermining its sanctity. We champion the idea of using personal growth as the compass to navigate post-divorce life, preparing for future relationships that are not just more profound but also anchored in commitment rather than convenience. Join us in this exploration of life's intricate tapestry, where endings and beginnings intertwine in the continuous pursuit of authentic happiness. Support the show…

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Embracing Life's Challenges: SEG 1 of 2: Resilience, Risk-Taking, and Finding Joy Through Adversity 24:21

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When a brush with cancer redefined my perspective on life, I realized that our days are too precious to waste on the inconsequential. This episode is my heartfelt invitation for you to join me in a journey of discovery—where we unlock the secrets of thriving through challenges and transforming adversity into joy and resilience. In a series of personal narratives, including my own, we pull back the curtain on the often untapped potential of emotional and mental resilience. You'll learn practical strategies to navigate life's hurdles, all while fostering personal growth and finding fulfillment in what truly counts. It's about casting aside our innate fear of hardship and instead, welcoming it as the architect of our most rewarding experiences. Venture further with me as I recount the lessons learned on the lacrosse field, translating the art of coaching into life's playbook for adaptability and resilience. You'll hear how practice and patience play critical roles in overcoming obstacles, not just in sports but in the intricate dance of relationships as well. We'll also discuss the exhilarating power of risk-taking and the liberation that comes with stepping out of your comfort zone, preparing you to craft a life brimming with satisfaction. Whether it's through creating a bucket list or embracing the nervousness that precedes success, this episode is an ode to the undaunted spirit within each of us, ready to soar to new heights. Support the show…

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Embracing Life's Challenges: SEG 2 of 2: Cultivating Resilience, Personal Responsibility, and Joy in Relationships 20:09

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When life throws a curveball, are we equipped with the emotional armor to hit it out of the park? Tony and I recently sat down to tackle the hefty subjects of resiliency and mental toughness, crucial tools for navigating the bumpy road to happiness. We dove into heartwarming tales of early pioneers whose steadfast vision and faith were their compass through the unknown, drawing a powerful parallel for today's vision-seekers. Our discussion ventured into how embracing a higher power can catalyze monumental change, a theme commonly witnessed in recovery programs, and we championed the radical notion of taking absolute ownership of our happiness. Have you ever considered that the true key to a lasting relationship might be focusing more on our contributions than our partner's flaws? That's precisely the vein we tapped into, highlighting the indispensable role of personal responsibility in cementing the foundation of our life and love stories. We shared anecdotes about maintaining joy in the midst of trials and tribulations, and dissected the destructive nature of blame, justification, and making excuses. Honesty, we agreed, is the bedrock of personal growth and joy - and we left no stone unturned in exploring its value. This week's heart-to-heart was a rallying cry for bolstering resilience, not just in ourselves but within the fabric of our relationships. We compared the no-excuses mindset of pilots to the trust cultivated or crushed in the cockpit of marriage, illustrating how avoidance of responsibility can lead to an erosion of trust. We didn't shy away from the tough talk necessary to fortify those bonds, and we stressed the importance of teaching resilience to our children, preparing them for a fulfilling life, rich with happiness. Remember to catch us again next week as we continue to chart the course toward finding joy in every facet of our lives. Support the show…

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SEG 4 of 4 - Values & Traditions - Embracing the Quirks of Daily Wonders and the Soothing Essence of Water: A Journey Through Life's Simple Riches 8:45

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Have you ever chuckled at the whimsy of expressions like "holy cow" or scratched your head at the sight of Braille on drive-thru ATMs? Well, jump into our latest banter where Will and I unravel these everyday oddities with a dash of humor. But it's not all giggles—we take a turn towards the heart, sharing tales of joy found in life's unassuming corners. From makeshift backyard campouts to tranquil strolls among nature's tapestry, we reveal how the richest memories often come with the humblest price tags. It's about the warmth of companionship, the sparks of creativity in our bonds, and the unforgettable imprints they leave. Meanwhile, the conversation flows like a river to the subject of our innate bond with water, a muse of poets and a balm for the weary soul. We ponder its soothing embrace, the harmonies it sings, and the tranquil refuge it offers—a dance of reflection and sound that may just echo our earliest memories from the womb. As you tune in, let us take you on a sensory journey through the power of water and its ability to wash over us with serenity. No need for snorkels or flippers; just let Will and Tony guide you through this deep dive into the essence of what makes life truly extraordinary. Support the show…

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SEG 1 of 1 - Embracing Life's Sunset: Overcoming Regrets, Living Presently, and Pursuing Purpose in the Golden Years 7:46

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Ever grappled with the weight of your yesteryears, or felt the tick-tock of time amplifying your life's could-haves and should-haves? That's the heart of our latest conversation on Let's Chat with Will Kessler and Tony Pack, as we navigate the waters of aging and the profound effect it has on our outlook. Amidst the tendrils of reminiscence, a listener brings a poignant dilemma to the table: managing regrets in the golden years and the creeping fear that a fulfilling life is just out of reach. We don't just acknowledge these concerns; we delve into the art of living in the present, seizing the day, and the wealth of experience every new sunrise brings. Our dialogue then sails towards the shores of bucket lists and the surprising realization that the feats we dream of often don't need the stretch of time we imagine. We shed light on the idea that every dawn is a fresh opportunity to craft a better tomorrow, armed with the wisdom that comes from the life we've lived thus far. Join us as we also reflect on the youthful energy of service missions and their profound impact on community and personal growth. It's a candid exploration of life's later chapters, inviting you to look forward with optimism and an unyielding sense of purpose. So, whether you're in the spring or autumn of your journey, tune in to Let's Chat and let's reframe the narrative on life's inevitable progression together. Support the show…

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SEG 1 of 4 - Jelousy - Charting the Course of Family Life: Insights on Parenting, Relationships, and Navigating Digital Challenges 14:17

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Discover the keys to navigating the winds of family life with us, Will and Tony, as we share our personal insights on fostering healthy relationships and tackling parenting hurdles. From the delicate art of discussing gender education with youngsters to the balancing act required when dealing with a partner's shifting priorities, we've got anecdotes and advice that'll strike a chord. We also confront the digital dilemmas that families face today, sharing our own stories of screen time skirmishes. And for those guiding their offspring through the maze of dating, we offer a grandfatherly perspective that blends wisdom with a touch of humor. Feel the pulse of a strong partnership as we dissect jealousy in relationships, weighing in on whether it's an expression of affection or a symptom of deeper issues. Drawing on a blend of tough love and empathetic wisdom, we address the voluntary nature of relationships and the daily choices that shape them. And don't worry, we haven't forgotten about the singles out there—we zero in on red flags in dating, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and personal growth. Plus, we tease upcoming discussions on maintaining personal boundaries, ensuring that our listeners are well-equipped to forge fulfilling connections in love, marriage, and family life. Support the show…

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SEG 2 of 4 - Jelousy -Embracing Accountability and Prioritizing Partnership: Insights Into Healthier Relationships and Navigating Social Dynamics 15:34

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Have you ever caught yourself pointing fingers in a relationship, only to realize that you might be part of the problem? That's the moment we examine when we discuss accountability in our connections with others, highlighting how ownership of our actions can lead us to happier, healthier interactions. Our in-depth conversation unravels the complexities of self-awareness, the hormone-induced fog of love, and the thorny issue of jealousy. We don't just leave you with questions; we equip you with insights on how to navigate these emotional minefields, understanding that growing personally is inextricably linked to the growth of our relationships. Imagine walking into a room filled with past memories and the person you've chosen to spend your life with at your side. That was the scenario I found myself in during a class reunion that turned into an unexpected lesson in prioritizing my partner's feelings over old nostalgia. This episode peels back the layers of those delicate social dynamics, from handling encounters with former flames to integrating into your significant other's family tree. We guide you through maintaining respect for your partner across various social scenarios, reinforcing the concept that marriage intertwines not just two lives, but two families. Join us as we share stories, strategies, and maybe even a few laughs, about the art of keeping your relationship front and center, no matter the social setting. Support the show…

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SEG 3 of 4 - Jelousy - Breaking Out of Relationship Ruts: Navigating Family dynamics and Cultivating Stronger Bonds 10:44

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Ever feel like you're stuck on a merry-go-round when it comes to relationships, circling the same issues time and again? That's where we, Will Kesley and Tony Patek, come in, ready to arm you with insights on fostering self-awareness and breaking through those destructive cycles. In our heartfelt conversation, we delve into why you might be drawn to the same partner types and how past choices echo into your present relational dynamics. We lay bare the nitty-gritty of maintaining the strength of your primary relationship, especially when navigating the complexities of family gatherings and ensuring both you and your partner feel valued and heard. Let's face it, family dynamics can be a minefield, and we don't shy away from the tough stuff, including when it might be necessary to take a step back from family members for the sake of your well-being. We emphasize taking ownership of your part in familial conflicts and the transformation that making amends can bring. And because we know life isn't just about the hard conversations, we also tease future discussions on the ever-evolving role of technology in our lives, and a sensitive exploration of eating habits – because we're all about mixing personal development with stimulating debates on a variety of topics. So tune in for an episode that promises to enlighten, engage, and possibly change the way you view your closest connections. Support the show…

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SEG 4 of 4 - Jelousy - Final Chapter - Embracing Self-Awareness: Tackling Technology Addiction and Emotional Eating for Stronger Family Bonds 4:27

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Unlock the power of self-awareness and forge stronger family bonds with us, Will Kesley and Tony Patek, as we tackle the pressing issues of technology overuse and emotional eating. These modern-day vices are more than just bad habits; they're symptomatic of deeper emotional voids and stressors that we all face. With stories from listeners like you, we shed light on the transformative effects of taking control of digital habits – imagine your phone turned off at 6 pm, ushering in an era of engagement and presence with your loved ones. It's not a myth; it's a reality for some of our audience members, and it could be for you too. In tandem with digital discipline, we explore the pitfalls of emotional eating and how it's not just a matter of willpower, but a complex weave of coping mechanisms. Sharing insights from one of our listeners struggling with overeating, we offer a fresh perspective on the benefits of intermittent fasting. Picture it as 'technology fasting' for your body, a reset button that aids in reclaiming control over impulses and establishing healthier patterns. Stay tuned as we tease an upcoming focus on intermittent fasting with expert guests who are set to revolutionize the way we think about food and health. Join us for a journey to wellness where control and conscious choices lead the way. Support the show…

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SEG 1 of 4 - Values & Traditions - Unraveling Time-Worn Traditions: Embracing Change and Deepening Connections in Life's Journey 10:46

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Ever found yourself chuckling over a family habit that's as old as the hills, yet no one knows why it started? That's where Tony Peck and I start our banter, peeling back the layers of time-worn traditions to see if they're seasoning our lives or just old habits needing to be tossed out like last week's leftovers. We swap tales like the classic rump roast yarn and the Timex watch saga to highlight the sometimes comical, often limiting effects of clinging to the past. And when I recount my eye-opening escapade in Mexico, it's a reminder that life's vibrancy is found in the new pages we dare to turn. This episode isn't just about the laughs, though. Tony and I get real about the threads that tie us together - relationships. We dissect the art of stress management and why self-awareness isn't just a buzzword but a lifeline to deeper connections. Navigating through these conversations, we ask the hard questions about which pearls of ancient wisdom still shine today and which are better left buried. So, join us on this thought-provoking ride as we toss out the outdated maps and chart a course towards a life that's not just lived but fully savored. Support the show…

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SEG 2 of 4 - Values & Traditions - Upholding Values in a Shifting Culture: Reflecting on Moral Choices and Discovering the Secret to Marital Bliss 10:56

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As I sat at that red light in our small town of Whole Falls, a creeping realization washed over me — are we witnessing the quiet slide of our collective moral compass? This episode isn't just about traffic laws; it's a deep reflection on how these seemingly insignificant moments are actually canaries in the societal coal mine, signaling the eroding of our public virtue and personal standards. I, Will, get personal with a confession of a momentary lapse, and together with my wife, we unveil our conscious decision to sidestep R-rated films, a choice emblematic of our commitment to upholding the values we hold dear. We're not here to preach, but rather to spark a conversation on what it means to maintain one's principles amidst a cultural backdrop that often seems to blur the lines. Then, join Tony and me as we venture back to a transformative trip to Mexico that forever altered the fabric of my marriage. In this chapter, we're not just reminiscing about the past; we're unlocking a 'trick' to a blissful marriage, one that we swear by and are excited to share with you. The journey through love and commitment is as personal as it is universal, and we're laying ours bare in hopes that it resonates or even guides. Whether you're flying solo, navigating the dating scene, or nestled in the nuances of married life, this revelation is bound to stir something within. We're eagerly waiting to weave your perspectives into the continuing tapestry of our conversation on News Talk 107-9, so don't hold back—your experiences are the heartbeat of this dialogue. Support the show…

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SEG 3 of 4 - Values & Traditions - The Marriage Maze: Navigating Emotional Commitments, Marital Challenges, and Parental Responsibilities 14:21

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