BUT WHAT WILL THEY THINK OF ME?

The Human Potential Podcast

Special Guest Dr. Dain Heer http://www.drdainheer.com/

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Today we have an extraordinary guest, Dr. Dain, the visionary creator and founder of Access Consciousness. In over 170 countries, Access Consciousness is dedicated to raising human consciousness and unlocking our true potential.

In our conversation, Dr. Dain delves into the concepts of projection, expectation, rejection, and separation, which he identifies as behaviours that limit and suppress our potential. These behaviours, often stemming from learned patterns, lead us to JUDEGEMENT—what Dr. Dain considers the most destructive force in the universe.

Recognizing these behaviours is crucial, and Dr. Dain provides tools to transcend them. One powerful tool is the practice of asking questions instead of making judgments. Questions like "What else is possible here?" open up new possibilities and help shift our mindset away from judgment. Another transformative tool is "Who does this belong to?" This question helps individuals discern that many of their thoughts, feelings, and emotions are not their own but picked up from others, people can lighten their emotional burdens by recognizing and returning these energies to their source.

During our discussion, I shared a personal story, highlighting how the "Who does this belong to?" tool helped me overcome my fear of judgement and make different choices. Dr. Dain further emphasizes the importance of being kind to oneself and embracing imperfections rather than striving for unattainable perfection. He introduces "interesting point of view" as a technique to neutralize negative reactions and judgments.

Throughout our conversation, Dr. Dain underscores the significance of self-awareness and the power of Access Consciousness tools in creating a happier, lighter life. He encourages listeners to explore these tools to transform their lives, stressing that change is possible and that achieving lightness and happiness is within reach.

Over the past 25 years, through Access Consciousness, numerous tools have been developed and those that have endured are effective for nearly all users, forming a comprehensive toolbox to overcome fear and elevate human consciousness.

Dr. Dain shared a story about a woman seeking relationship tools, leading to the first relationship class 23 years ago. This class provided valuable insights into relationship discord and helped many people improve their relationships. The organic growth of these tools has propelled the company to 176 countries, continuously evolving and creating new tools.

We then shifted our focus to relationships, a core aspect of life alongside money. Relationships can bring immense joy or profound pain. Personal experiences, including trauma and suicidal thoughts, illustrate the intense impact of relationships. For example, strained relationships with family members can lead to severe distress.

Dr. Dain explains that the need to be right, often driven by fear of being wrong, can be destructive in relationships. Instead of striving to be right, he advocates for cultivating a space of allowance and viewing situations as "interesting points of view." This approach involves recognizing and accepting others' perspectives without needing to prove oneself. Allowance is about understanding and responding without judgment, not passivity.

Family dynamics complicate relationships, as early interactions shape our reality and create persistent conflicts. Dr. Dain introduces the concept of "humans and humanoids" to distinguish between those uninterested in personal growth (humans) and those constantly seeking self-improvement (humanoids). This distinction helps understand different behaviors and judgments in relationships.

Most personal issues, Dr. Dain notes, are not originally ours but adopted from those around us, especially parents. Recognizing that many of our thoughts and feelings are inherited can be liberating. The "clearing statement" and questioning these inherited structures can facilitate personal healing.

By continually questioning and clearing inherited points of view, individuals can move beyond stress and conflict towards a more authentic and peaceful existence. The ultimate goal is to shift from survival mode to thriving, involving a commitment to personal growth and a willingness to receive help from the universe.

Our discussion also touched on love, particularly the structures of love learned from parents. Many seek love to fill gaps created by these inherited structures. True love, Dr. Dain asserts, involves valuing oneself and others, creating a space that includes everyone without judgment. It's about receiving contributions from those genuinely willing to support. Building healthier relationships requires moving beyond the need for love as a gap-filling mechanism and approaching relationships from a place of completeness and mutual contribution.

Join us in this transformative episode as we explore these profound concepts and tools with Dr. Dain, and discover how you can elevate your consciousness and potential.