San Diego's number one rated sex, intimacy and love coach takes you on a passionate journey through all the forbidden questions you've always wanted answers to. Get clear, sensual, guidance to help you learn about your body, experience more passion and uncover hotter chemistry. Learn how to do all of it simply by tuning in and applying what you learned. If you're currently experiencing heartbreak, emotional pain or betrayal there are plenty additional episodes to help you get through it all. ...
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How to inspire a woman to FEEL sexy and sexual towards you
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There's a huge difference between you finding your woman sexy and her feeling sexy and sexual towards you. Listen to this episode to make a bigger splash with your partner in and out of the bedroom. Chapters: 0:00 Intro 4:45 It's not only about physical touch 8:20 Men think it's their partners job to be sexy 8:44 Men want all the sexiness from her …
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13 Easy to fix roadblocks that are keeping you from having sex right now… and what to do about them
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CHAPTERS: 0:00 Introduction 3:42 1:Logistics 8:03 The three categories of affection 11:33 Logistical problem 1a: Your furnishings 13:37 Logistical problem 1b: Lovers can't find the time 14:12 2. Family, extended family and kids 15:58 3. No locks on your doors 18:30 4. The zoo that lives with you 19:57 5. Energy 22:35 Not wanting to. Needing it to f…
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What to do with an extra horny wife or girlfriend… when your libidos are mismatched
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CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro and the types of relationships that are like this 2:34 Women who want it but their husbands drive is not there 3:42 You're trying, you're having good sex but it's still not enough for her 5:06 Thoughts on what to do if you have a very sexual wife or girlfriend 11:26 Distinguishing between a woman who doesn't want you vs someone …
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20 Things to consider when dating a woman who has children
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Chapters: 0:00 Intro 2:25 Disclosures 3:45 Connecting with your children is not something that ever ends 5:45 1. Anytime something goes wrong, it’s going to require mom’s instant attention 7:06 A taste of my story 9:50 2. Many women think their ex is crazy or a narcissist 12:00 The usual disclaimers 14:00 A contribution from a single mother 15:57 3…
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The incredible experience of knowing when a woman is in love with you… and how to reciprocate back! 15 ways
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Chapters: 0:00 Introduction 7:23 1. When she's deferential towards you 14:26 2. She looks at you directly, frequently 16:47 3. The way that she looks at you 20:55 4. Admiration 24:12 5. Her desire to have sex with you 28:50 6. The way she'll have sex with you and what she's willing to do 35:30 Putting yourself in her position 41:12 7. Little notes …
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Sexual Tension. What it is, how to play with it and why you must build it with your partner
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CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 1:39 Men and women show sexual interest differently 3:41 Puppy dog love 8:34 Men and women initiate differently 12:33 What does it look like when a woman makes herself sexually available to you 14:23 Finding the right "time" to initiate 15:58 How to be sexual with your consensual partner 18:37 Why men have a hard time with timin…
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Understanding how your partner starts fights and provokes you… and what you can do about it
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This is admittedly a dense episode. It's less about the usual sexy and thought provoking ideas we usually explore and more about the inane conflicts that arise in relationship which prevent us from experiencing true intimacy or a great connection! Fighting is often trite, exhausting and most couple's can't even remember what their last ten or twent…
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Closeness Interview: A glimpse into a millennial military spouse’s marriage. Could this also be your relationship?
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In this unprecedented interview read by the podcast host, a Closeness Client shares her struggles with intimacy and grapples with her desires for dominance and assertiveness in relationship. A two part interview with a "director's cut" version: commentary from the host, as well as an unadulterated interview. Does her experience hit home? CHAPTERS: …
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How to move things forward and have sex when you feel like roommates, best friends or are simply not progressing
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Without a doubt, one of the number one reasons people struggle in long term, committed relationships, is because they feel like best friends or roommates at home. There's no passion or excitement! Nothing is moving forward, or things have gone stale. In this hour long episode you’ll learn how to immediately take the reins again and change that imme…
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Why your female partner or wife isn’t having sex with you, and what you can do about it
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Often the things we aren't doing in bed can be as detrimental as the ones we are. Here are ten reasons why your wife or girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with you.De către Tari Mannello
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Interview: Intimate insights from the mind and heart of a 20 year old college student
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An unusually intelligent and intellectual college student explores her boundaries of sexuality, and intimate desires. How men and women at the university level interact with each other these days in the dating world is different than what we've seen before. Together, we explore who should initiate and seduce in the bedroom, male and female nature, …
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10 ways women can feel more sexually desirable and connected in and out of the bedroom
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Chapters: 0:00 Intro 4:45 Speak up for yourself 12:00 Speaking unconsciously for obnoxious lengths of time 20:26 Making her come well and relax often triggers women to talk 22:24 Learning to be open and in a receptive mode to welcome intimacy 25:58 Don't have sex with people you don't like sleeping with 27:02 Beating up your man for mistakes from h…
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Staying hard, getting it up, finishing too early, ED, PE, and other fascinating subjects for men and women
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The most difficult subject for any man to think about much less discuss is likely to be: keeping it up, getting it up and finishing too quickly. This is an episode you'll want to listen to with your partner because there are tools, tips and tricks in here for both men and women. Don't skip out on incredible intimacy when the answers can be found ri…
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How to properly be dominant and assertive with a woman in the bedroom
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CHAPTERS 0:00 Introductions 3:29 How exactly does a man learn to be dominant 8:06 What does healthy dominance mean? 14:30 When a woman is ready for sex before you are and understanding gender roles 16:15 What is sexual foreplay? 22:05 Women often can't express what they want 24:03 How do you handle bad results and fears 25:37 Welcome to Deep Listen…
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Can you have it all in relationships? Plus, female mating strategies
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CHAPTERS 0:00 Introduction and can you have it all? Recitals and disclaimers 2:44 In a nutshell 4:20 What does it mean to have it all? 9:40 Misunderstandings 12:40 Should one person be your everything? 15:21 COVID and Politics 16:26 Are you really perfect, just the way you are? 17:40 The Disney Fairytale 21:30 How Women Select mates 24:39 How men o…
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30 Things you never need to say to your partner again
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Chapters: Avoid these thirty expressions to have a better lifeDe către Tari Mannello
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To come or not to come. Whether men should finish and how women feel about it
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One of the biggest questions of our time as it pertains to intimacy is whether or not a man should always "finish" when having sex. This episodes dives deep into the pros and cons and explores the little known avenue of pressure that women can place on men. Topics include: 0:00 Introduction 0:53 Societal expectations around finishing 1:33 Typical e…
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Empathy, understanding and answers for sexually inexperienced men
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Please listen to this episode with your partner. Sexually inexperienced men do not get a lot of attention. Because this subject is so sensitive, there isn't much real world instruction around it either. In fact most men grapple with a great deal of shame and guilt around the subject and often will not reach out for help. This episode is for you. CH…
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What to do and what it means when a woman says she needs space
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One of the most difficult things someone can hear, is that their partner needs space. Nothing is clear, the terms are undefined, and once uttered it usually ends up in disaster. Tune in now to find out what to do. CHAPTERS: 0:00 Introduction 5:25 Malignant phrases 6:20 How to handle short term space 8:38 When she takes days, weeks and months of spa…
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Part 3: How to properly handle and move on from a breakup
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1:45 Actions speak louder than words 5:55 What do you actually owe the other person? 8:24 Do unto others as you would have them do unto you 10:36 When we invest ourselves too much and get overextended 13:54 Self care and taking care of ourselves 20:23 When you think you don't want anyone else but them 23:28 getting over your previous relationships …
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Part 2: How to properly handle, cope and deal with a breakup
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One of the biggest challenges of being alive today, is handling, processing, surviving and getting through a breakup. In this 90 minute episode I am going to help you get through it. CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:45 You are probably in crisis right now 7:09 We look for ways to resent our partner to get over them 8:05 Understanding the emotional scale 9:08 …
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How to properly handle a breakup…before it happens Part 1
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Breakups are extremely painful and can often take months and years to heal from. But there are always warning signs and things we often ignore. In part one of this three part series, we help you identify what's working and not working right now in your current relationship, to see if it will last or if it's time to breakup, given how you're being t…
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Ghosting and Blocking and Curving Oh My!
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It's one of the most detrimental behavior patterns of our generation. Here's everything you need to know to recognize it, avoid it and if you are afflicted with this disease, how to cure it. CHAPTERS:0:00 What is ghosting?2:25 Why do people ghost? 6:25 When does emotional involvement begin?10:17 Preliminaries and disclaimers13:15 Having to make bac…
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How to Create Hot Sexual Chemistry from Nothing
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What’s your definition of hot passionate chemistry? Do you believe that it’s just “there or it isn’t?” In this episode we will put that myth to an end. We’ll explore over twenty concepts including: - How to have naturally good chemistry with everyone around you -Is chemistry for men inevitable or bound to happen regardless of what happens? -How man…
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Is she asking for it and is she asking for it sexually?
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Chapters: 0:00 Intro 1:16 Is she asking for it? 8:04 Men don't really like to be teased the way women do 8:43 You should always be able to say no 9:43 He's reading your cues accurately if you're advertising sex 10:04 The same cues you use to flirt are the same cues people use to have sex 13:52 When a man takes you shopping...…
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An Intimate Sensual Meditation About Kauai
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In this unprecedented time of worry and concern regarding COVID-19 (or coronavirus), this is our corona-free offering to soothe you and help you relax: a sensual meditation to listen to again and again, anytime you need it. Think of it as a rampage of appreciation. We won't reveal much, but make sure you're in a comfortable and relaxing place befor…
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How to Properly Have Sex with a Man and How to Turn a Man On
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Countless Closeness episodes focus on how to pleasure a woman, but what can you do to take care of your man? Put down your magazine and let's get deep. Sure, we can talk about how to go down and how to arch your back, but what about the stuff everyone is afraid to talk about? Let’s get closer: Closeness Coaching for sex, intimacy, relationships and…
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How to properly kiss! 10 juicy steps
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Learning to kiss our partner in a way that really turns them on is not innate. Like most things we do for the first time, we're sloppy and we don't take the time to learn good technique. Yes even kissing has a technique and it isn't taught in school or by our family, fortunately. Enter the Closeness podcast: a guide to kissing, replete with all the…
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How to properly have sex with a woman
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Welcome to 2020 and welcome to Season Two of the Closeness Podcast! To start the New Year off with a bang we’re diving in with a sexually-explicit episode that covers fifteen steps to giving a woman a phenomenal experience she won’t forget. What are some of the specific things we can do to get out of our heads, out of our egos and into our partner?…
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How to Have the Big Talk: STD’s, STI’s and Proper Etiquette
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Exposing your sexual health and history to someone new is very vulnerable. Getting tested, asking a partner about their past and sharing your feelings are difficult territories to navigate. Since most of us feel uncomfortable even thinking about it, very few of us possess the wherewithal to have a mature conversation and make the right choices. We’…
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The Female Sexual Response Cycle: 10 Passionate Phases
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Growing up you may have heard of the sexual response cycle: excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution. We’d like to introduce you to something a little more provocative. In this sexually explosive episode, we’ll unravel the 10 phases most women go through as they get more and more turned on, but we’ll take it further and deeper than you ever thoug…
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How to say no, Part 2: Changing your mind and maybe
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How many times have you changed your mind? Perhaps you didn’t desire someone at first and you later found yourself wanting them. You said you were attracted to them, you acted like you were attracted and then suddenly something switched and you felt differently. Why is that? As a general rule, men love to please women. How then do you reject a man …
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How to say no Part 1: Rejecting and approaching
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Rejection leaves most people feeling unworthy and hurt. Both men and women are generally terrible at receiving it and even worse at giving it. But rejection is a necessary step towards establishing or maintaining healthy boundaries and a healthy sex life. Why don’t we ever put ourselves in anyone else’s shoes? We hate rejection, but we never stop t…
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Sunday morning for her: Another sensual meditation
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One of the best parts of listening to Closeness is learning how to have great sex! After so much great feedback from previous sensual meditations, we’d like to offer you another. When men listen to this episode, they don’t understand it, yet, for a woman it can mean everything. Check it out for yourselves and let us know what you think. It’s short …
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Part 3: Who should pay for first dates and beyond?
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This much-anticipated, 90-minute conclusion to our 3 part series holds nothing back. We’ll share articles, statistics, personal references and even explore if paying for dates is a form of prostitution! We’ll discuss how people really feel when their partner fights or argues for the bill, what the expectations are when people pay, and how it works …
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Part 2: Who should pay for the first date and beyond?
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In this three part series, we explore over 25 more points regarding who should pay, including: – What happens when the woman makes significantly more financial resources? – How do we know when our ego is running the show vs. our generosity? – How to handle dating with regard to the wage gap – Is paying for and going on dates like prostitution? We’l…
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Who should pay for the first date and beyond?
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In this incredible three part series, host Tari shares his thought-provoking stance on who should pay and why. He draws on countless personal experiences as well as experiences from others that have helped shape his philosophies over time. Over three and a half hours of content spread out over three episodes ensures you’ll reexamine almost everythi…
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How to know if a girl really wants you using 5 signs
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When we learn how to share closeness with someone else, it often deals with the things we should avoid doing. We’ll give some examples of this before exploring body language, hugging, eye contact as well as understanding who should initiate touch. After listening to this episode, you’ll have five sure-fire ways to figure out if a woman is really in…
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5 easy steps to figure out what turns you and your partner on
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Open any self-help book to discover the phrase, “communication is the key.” But do we in fact know how to communicate? Are we shy? Do we say what we mean? Are we a great listener? Do we practice non-violent communication? How do you know if your partner is understanding what you are trying to express? We can’t hide behind the word, “communication” …
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Should you engage in long distance relationships?
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We all have the capacity to make things work, but are long distance relationships really worth it? If you’ve been in one yourself or are in one now, you know how challenging it can be without regular visits and zero physical connection. In this episode we look at the countless disadvantages to these types of arrangements and explore why it probably…
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Interview: The intimate adventures of a 48 year old mother
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Hot sex and great intimacy is not just for young people. In this episode we cover a lot of territory such as: – Stigmas and judgements about homosexuality and whether it’s easier for a woman to be openly bisexual in today’s society – Judgements and whether it’s possible not to judge – If the concept of non-judgement is a myth – Double penetration –…
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Interview: How to excite a demi sexual with Sarah
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What does it mean to be demisexual and how does this affect online dating? What does it take for someone like Sarah to get aroused? This is a very special and juicy episode with a beautiful woman who has a phenomenal voice and laugh! In this special interview, Sarah shares her story and explains why she made a major life decision to undergo a doubl…
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Interview: The intimate adventures of a 21 year old traveling girl with Marisa
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For many, traveling is one of our favorite ways to experience life, culture and romance. In this episode, we interview freshly-turned twenty-one, Marisa about world travel, sexual adventures and romance. Topics discussed include: – Traveling alone vs. with a partner – Long distance relationships when traveling – How to stay safe as a young, single …
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Can men and women actually be friends?
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By default you are probably thinking, yes of course! However, is that what’s really going on when sexual attraction is involved? This podcast takes a profound look at the favors men do for women to bargain for their friendship as well as the many ways women keep their so-called friends around to help them with other favors and kind gestures. We als…
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The final 13 deadly sins of online dating (Part 3)
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In this riveting climax to the 3-part series of Deadly Sins of Online Dating, we’ll give you the final thirteen sins and teach you how to avoid them at all costs. In this episode: – Using general or filler words to make your partner jealous such as being “out with friends” – Being intentionally boring – Not answering direct questions and avoiding t…
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The next 12 deadly sins of online dating (Part 2)
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Our next installment of deadly sins of online dating include: – Looking approximately 40% worse in person than your worst profile photo – Speaking only of what you “don’t do and won’t do” and being utterly disagreeable – Endless excuses for not getting together when you like someone and never committing to a date – Using snapchat filters and specif…
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The first 15 deadly sins of online dating
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Online dating is a bit like the wild, wild, West. For some, it’s like a dirty little secret we don’t discuss with anyone but our closest of confidants. With so much choice and technology at our fingertips, why do most people leave dating apps feeling frustrated, jaded and alone? More importantly, why do we do all seem to say or do the worst kind of…
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Closeness and self-love: 5 pillars of self care
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Being close with another starts with caring for yourself and knowing how to stay in alignment. In this episode we discover the power of your own presence. This alone can dramatically improve your life. Then we’ll look at different types of physical activity that supports healthy brain function and explore how to break up our work day in a way that …
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Rome: A sensual meditation and rampage of appreciation
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Introducing two incredible offerings packed into one little episode. First, learn how to go on a rampage of appreciation to immediately feel more positive emotions. Next, get your first taste of our signature Sensual Meditations. Imagine being able to close your eyes while Tari speaks sensually to you about intimate subjects that makes you feel lik…
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12 Wicked little female faux pas to avoid
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In this action-packed episode, we’ll discuss more than twelve mistakes you want to avoid when communicating with others. Here’s just a taste of what we’ll cover: – Hyper-exaggeration – Erroneously flinging around heavy psychological diagnoses about men – Minimizing other women and degrading them – Exaggerating about your girlfriend who is so “gorge…
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